I think it is possible that many cannot feel this because of several variables. The obvious ones are length of the woman's rectum and the length of the mans penis. Position and angle of penetration is also a factor on whether you can reach the colon. Lastly, the actual shape and length of the rectum...

Having read now quite a few of the links about vaginal atrophy, it appears very common. Before the internet, who knew, other than those suffering, about this condition. And all the potential remedies seem to be a shot in the dark. I guess once you reach a certain age everyone assumes you won't be in...

As the other guys have said: You are more likely to get what you want by working on this together. This means you both listen, respect and understand each others needs. There is no need to rush this. From what you have told us, you are actually doing really well. I perfectly understand the desire to...

One thing I think will help is not giving to vagainal sex. I need to be stronger. If there's no anal then I should refuse, even if it means no sex for me. I will just have to take care if myself if it comes to the crunch. It's a fine line. On the one hand you don't want to appear to be punishing he...

I was aware of those potential issues caused by a lack of estrogen, but hadn't heard it called vaginal atrophy before.

All the more reason to be glad we are AO, as this will spare her all this potential unpleasantness which she reaches the menopause.

I've not heard of this before. Any particular links worth reading? Just out of curiosity as we haven't used my wifes vagina in several years now, nor do we have any plans to do so.
Is this perhaps why anal sex seems to have even more appeal to more mature women?

I find it so surprising to read how many of you are into this. One of the delights of anal for me personally is how slippery AND tight it can be. I accpet there can be some mucus inside but the exterior of the anus and shaft of the penis are so very dry. It boggles my mind that insertion can be acco...

Hello fin. Welcome to the fold! And I'm glad you found us. There is something reassuring to know you are actually not at all unusual in this preference that until recently was not socially acceptable. The evidence is starting to stack up that indicates we are probably in fact quite common. Luckily f...

Congratulations. Setting targets is sometimes the route to success for some couples, whilst for others a flexible approach where you both adjust as the need arises works just as well. Just remember that a month is often too soon to tell if it is going to be a full time commitment. How have you both ...

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