Thanks for the answers. I guess we are a rare species then. I'm glad we have this little community, however tiny it is. I was like "hey the hells this?" when my boyfriend first told me about what he wanted but by speaking to you all I think I'm beginning to understand better, even if I still feel li...

For me I guess it's a combination. I admit the idea appealed to my sub side :oops: But my boyfriend had anxiety issues over vaginal sex to which there didn't seem to be any other answer. Even given this it's not a simple or easy decision to make. I'm sure the reasons are different for everyone though.

So it's about comfort? The more we've done the easier it has become, but I have tensed up when he gets carried away and wants to go deep. It would be nice to be able to let him hump away with worry.....Like we did before.I guess I've been holding back a little and erring on the side of caution :( An...

I'm still kind of curious about where all this comes from and how common these exclusively anal pacts actually are. I've read conflicting answers to this so I'm assuming nobody really knows. I don't think I would have thought of it or heard it it unless my boyfriend had told me all about it. He said...

Also, this position from JoeBlo: Crouching cowgirl is my favorite because she can push down while I thrust up and she grinds down. Actually just about every time we have sex we do this , I love being as deep as I can, it's so hot knowing that I am that deep inside her. Just start slow and guide you...

This is exactly how my boyfriend is. We still do a little oral sex, but anal is his thing. I've come to accept that that's the way he is. I feel much better about it now that it's out in the open and now I understand that it isn't only him.

I feel very sorry for her. What a terrible condition to have to live with.

Is this even safe? It can feel a little uncomfortable when my boyfriend pushes his full length into me.

I was honest abt how much I've enjoyed the past 6 months - and abt how much I loved her for agreeing initially. We both agreed the past few months have been awesome, stress & anxiety free. I talked abt how much closer I felt to her. This here ^ is just like my boyfriend, and I've noticed how stress...

analtom wrote:Also remember that many of the women that are here went through a metamorphosis of vaginal to anal.

Yes, but in my case by free choice with a loving boyfriend. The OP is not in that situation and it's hard to see what good can come out of it.