I wish I had good advice for you brother. There are so many men like us who, over the years, have learned that anal is our true deep desire, real sex. With a woman whom we love. It is deeper and more bonding than anything I have known. In your situation, it is not simple as you have children and hug...

Never saw anal porn until my late 50s, but totally agree with what Mr. Colt1911 mentioned. Amateur porn is better because it is realistic and you can tell if the woman is enjoying it or not. A couple of times I shared it with my partner to illustrate that it is natural and normal and enjoyable. It h...

You are a fortunate man.

A person cannot be happy unless they have gratitude and I hope you do.

Same here. It was such a relief to find this forum (I believe someone mentioned it on Quora) and learn of so many like minded people.

Of course. There is something about anal which brings a couple together more closely. I cannot explain it, it just is.

I was raised Catholic and none of the nuns or priests at school or anyone in my life ever mentioned anal, good or bad. Therefore I do not have the same stigmas others do and I am grateful for that. Sadly, I discovered anal late in life and that is my only regret, but very happy otherwise. It is bond...

I agree with all of the comments above and will add to them. My lady has never done an enema but always cleans up before play as we both enjoy it when I rim her. Also, play with some toys and lube and it will ease your mind. After years of practice we have learned which toys go first and are useful,...

If she previously was ok with anal and now is not, it is a BIG red flag. Could be one of many reasons and these ares are for you to discover.
As someone wrote on this site (paraphrasing), "if the heart is accepting, the ass is accepting".

A couple making each other happy is a wonderful thing, who can ask for more.
Don't let her go. You are a lucky man!

Another possibility is that she does not have another lover, but she is done with the marriage. Hi semi-normal!. Probably is done with the marriage. Condemned by the kids, maybe. I would love to have some proof of infidelity or just get her drunk enough to spit everything she really thinks and feel...