Might be worth one of you moving if the match is a good one.

Ozzy, you are a lucky man and I trust you are grateful for your situation. A man can wish for no more.

I agree with Luv2play45, we always use a toy/plug with coconut oil before advancing. Very few women can accept penetration without warmup. Go very slowly on each session and progress further over time, very slowly. Most women have negative experiences because us guys go too quickly.

Colt1911 has good advice and if you want to succeed, accept it. Go very slowly in this realm and you could be rewarded handsomely. Too many of us guys get too turned on and go too quickly which is not typically great for your partner (I suppose this is true with PIV sex too). Take your time every ti...

Mr. Ask_B, There is ONE (1) main reason men get married. If she is not fulfilling her obligation she is breaking her marital vows. You say you "like her as a person, friend and partner" but you can have that with your male friends. She gets all the benefits of a marriage but you don't? You have a ro...

I agree with Colt1911, please do not give up. Please see this study from last year: https://www.analonlylifestyle.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=20869 Start off slow and be very patient and play with her ass. Not only patient with every love making session, but long term patience, progressing little by lit...

From June of 2022: https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/957479 A key finding: ‘Anal sex’ has long been narrowly defined as in-and-out penetration. But three previously unnamed, but distinct, anal touch techniques also emerged from the study that many women find pleasurable: 40% of women find ‘An...

It was this thread that motivated me to stop lurking and join and recently I did. There are many of us lurkers just wanting to learn and absorb and feel accepted, without wanting to expose ourselves. I felt an obligation after learning so much from the people writing, and from identifying with them....

We have had good luck with coconut oil. There are two types: regular (hardens below 75 degrees F) and fractionated which is liquid regardless of temperature. Over the last few years we've been using fractionated infused with CBD from Foria and have not noticed any difference from regular fractionate...

Thank you all for your comments. Mr. LuvMyWifesAss, I took you up on the offer to PM as I'd prefer not to share all the details of my situation at this time.
Finding an accommodating partner is a BIG part of success in this realm and I'm grateful that I'm mostly there.