Hi, and welcome. You sound a lot like me in your anal exploits. Fun, isn't it?
About what sexual preference- Gay, straight, or Bi- Labels are for wine bottles. You are a sexual being. That's all that matters.

Enema fans argue about the long term effects of daily enemas. Some say you may become dependant on them, and lose the ability to defecate normally. A use it or lose it scenario. Others have been doing it everyday for years. Your call. My favorite way is to hang it by the shower head. As warm water a...

I posted a tutorial on long dildos for you. I know lots of people who use a butt plug all day, every day. Remove it for defecating. Your asshole may take longer to recover after a whole day, and take a while to go back to it's pristine shape, but it will. You will need to remove it, and relube a few...

singleinDC wrote:Sounds like a project for the shower...

After the enema, a thick towel on the bed should be fine. Lube will get everywhere tho'.

Late edit to my last post- Please don't think you can get away without the enema, by having a good poop. The purpose of the sigmoid valve is it store the poop in the sigmoid until it opens, fills the rectum, and you will feel the need to poop. If you go past the valve, you WILL be pushing the dildo ...

Very long toys 101 I have toys up to 39", and regularly get them in all the way. You will need a very deep clean out. Three full rounds with a 2 qt. enema bag. By the last rinse the water should be clear. Don't use soap, or salt or other irritants. Sit on the toilet, or stay near one for twenty minu...

"You'd think a religious school would be more likely to endorse anal! "

Oh, they do, but only between the priests, and the younger male students.

They teach the important stuff, but no, nothing about really having sex, love, commitment, feeling. I have a feeling that, like my generation, teenagers first sex is still clumsy, painful, and fast. Also, I think one thing won't change quickly- How I learned to have anal sex. I stuck my ass in the a...

I've been poked in the butthole pretty hard, enough to hurt, by a badly aimed dick. It's certainly not going in, unless you've already been up to some anal play.
I have lots of friends who had a very bad first experience with anal, and they love it now. Takes a good teacher.

Single in DC- I used to work at a Catholic school. They did have sex ed, but it was basically about abstinence. I talked to a few teenagers about sex ed in public school. They teach a decent bit about contraception, and disease. That's a good thing. They don't really talk about HOW to have sex. The ...