Backdoorlover wrote: ↑

Sat Feb 17, 2024 1:01 pm

@Colt1911 I wonder if anyone tried WD40 ?

I’m sure someone has tried it! People put all kinds of things in their ass. My wife was afraid we’d have to go to the emergency room when her ass sucked in a small butt plug. Fortunately, she squatted and was able to push it out.

ChrisW I completely agree, although I expect every member of this group who is actively engaged in anal feels the same way. One of my great pleasures is watching my wife’s face and mouth during anal. It’s one of the reasons my favorite position is her on her back at the corner of the bed. My bigges...

I’ve fantasized about anal sex since I was a teen. I had anal with two women before I met my wife. We attempted anal on many occasions but she found it too painful to continue. Long story short, her libido improved significantly after stopping birth control and starting hormone replacement therapy. ...

ChrisW wrote: ↑

Fri Feb 16, 2024 3:20 pm

@Colt1911 I was just joking. I'm all for everyone experimenting and using whatever works for them.

I was joking too. Bacon grease for lube was over the top but tobasco sauce might be worse.

ChrisW wrote: ↑

Fri Feb 16, 2024 5:02 am

I hope we don't kick off a lube war. People can get very passionate about their lubes being the "one, true lube"

Nothing wrong with free choice. Spit, silicone, water base, vegetable oil, bacon grease, Vaseline, wire pulling lubricant, mud… whatever floats your boat. Freedom of choice.

I really like the B Vibe toys. They aren't the cheapest but the quality stands out easily for me versus cheaper things. The shape of the plugs are designed for long use and very comfortable, and work up from 1 all the way to 7. I started with the 2 myself and am now on the 5. Their vibrating toys a...

I meant the awareness around the anal-only lifestyle, not just anal sex in general. I'm sure that's common these days. Just wondering if people are feeling on their own wanting this because they never found information like is found on this forum or the blog. It would never have occurred to me to b...

@Backdoorlover if he doesn’t use lube and take a little time to warm her up, he runs the risk of her rejecting anal entirely.

Lube is a must for those new to anal. Even after years of anal only, we still take the time to enjoy a little anal play.

Ambalam plugs can help but I’d recommend using lube until she has more anal experience. A good water based lube or coconut oil should work. If she’s new to anal, I recommend you spend some time pleasuring her hole with tongue, fingers, and small toys. Even though it’s been years since we started ou...

Lubrication during anal is a personal preference. When we first started anal sex, we used a ton of lube. I even bought a lube shooter (like a syringe) and squeezed lube into her ass. It helped in the beginning but we quickly learned too much lube mutes the feeling that makes anal sex pleasurable. Fi...