I've read the book a long time ago. It is one of the worst (if not THE worst) piece of "novel" I could've ever read. Although the theme sounds appealing, as it did to me back then, the writing is worse than awful in every possible way. Most people in this forum could have easily done a better job (I...

It obviously matters. There are women with deeper vaginas (lengthier from the vaginal opening up to the cervix) and deeper recta (lengthier from the anus up to the sigmoid colon) and there are those with shallower ones (and everything in-between, naturally). By the same token there are those with ei...

Just because you asked — I'd say you're confused and conflicted (but hopefully we'll dissipate that). The reason why you're conflicted seems to stem from the fact that you're looking/searching for the finish line without wanting/taking the race into consideration (sorry, I'm terrible with metaphors)...

Well... this sounds cliché but... dialogue is key. First you must let her know how you feel about it: the importance of anal sex/play to you, how much you miss it, how do you think it can give you both a great experience, etc.. If she has no moral objections towards it, then there's just the problem...

Glad to hear everything turned out well.

I think you're making a fundamental mistake when separating psychological aspects from physical ones, for this distinction is rather didactic than clear cut real. I don't think you would derive much "physical" pleasure from being fondled by a known convict murder who just barged into your house with...

You can try to engage in enema play as foreplay (if he's into that); the building up expectation might really heighten the common complicity that arises from doing anal alone. In the long run, however, I believe enemas can mess up with your natural ability to have bowel movements, might cause electr...

First things first: in order to better understand each other we ought to take good care of the way in which we express and address to each other (in this case, writing). Please, I beg you, out of respect and in behalf of every forum member, try to be more organized and careful whenever you're writin...

Many truths and misconceptions alike in this topic. Men tend to be more perverted/objectifiers since they are, in general, more systematic than women, so there's some truth when somebody said they have sex for the orgasm. Women, on the other hand, understand lovemaking in a deeper (and must I say, m...

I am almost doing it. My gf doesn't like anal and I can't keep avoiding anal. I avoiding to cheat her, but I can't keep skipping my desire for ass. Every day I have to masturbate to relax the tension of no-anal partnership. Don't give in to cheating. Tell you how important and meaningful anal sex i...