Long time since I’ve posted an update to my situation. I felt like I jinxed myself with my pronouncement of “anal in 2019” because it just wasn’t happening. We’ve been very busy -- I’ve started an evening MBA program, so it’s even more than just juggling life with jobs and 3 kids. But we’ve remain v...

As I spelled out in my introduction post ( https://www.analonlylifestyle.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=18630 ), my wife and I are on the cusp of finally having anal sex after introducing anal play into our bedroom activities in the last year. I've ordered Wicked Jelle lube based on reviews I've read and w...

I was 20 when I first had anal sex, with my then girlfriend of three years. She had graduated from our college one year ahead of me and was visiting me for a weekend in the fall of my senior year, so we were eager to get down to business. While we were having sex on the first day of her visit, we tr...

In some ways analsexonly , yes, gradual change; in other ways -- in the context of married for almost 14 years -- it’s distinct progress. My wife and I had a surprise night to ourselves the other night when kiddos did a sleepover at grandma’s and it gave us more time for intimacy and conversation. I...

Wanted to give an update after my wife and I went away for a few nights by ourselves earlier this month. I had some high hopes for advancing our anal adventures but they mostly fizzled out. But then when I reflected upon our time, I actually think there were some further signs of progress. So our fi...

I just joined a couple of weeks ago and it's been super quiet on here... hope I'm not coming in just as the party ends!

I've become a big fan of open back underwear since my wife and I have started exploring anal play in the last year. I recently purchased this nice item for her (still waiting for weekend getaway to give to her): https://www.barenecessities.com/bluebella-orion-high-waist-open-back-brief-40565_product...

I don’t necessarily intend to provide a play-by-play account of my bedroom escapades in this thread, but did want to share another sign of progress from just last night. I do have to say that this forum has made it so I have even more “anal on the brain” than usual! We got the kiddos to bed last nig...

Nice to hear from some other 40 somethings! I'm on a similar path as you and your wife, but still in the first few steps of exploring anal as part of our usual activities. We still haven't had anal sex yet, but I'm hopeful that will happen soon, based on how we've been progressing. One thing I have ...

This is my first post. This was originally going to be a response to some posts about convincing one’s wife or girlfriend to embrace anal, but it started unfurling into a much longer reply, so I thought maybe it’s appropriate for my introduction post. My wife and I are in our 40s, married for 13 yea...