Let me add to the congratulations on resolving a conflict in your relationship and going from an anal-neutral status to the bliss you've achieved: may it only continue! But in the spirit of friendly polemic that you have invited I feel compelled to respond to your comments about masturbation as a "p...

That does sound like an unusual circumstance--but it also seems that you recognize and appreciate your partner for who she is and how you relate to one another sexually: all the more reason not to push AO if she's not willing. And I can well understand that if anal for her is really all about the we...

The first time I had anal, with my girlfriend at age 19 (see a previous post on the subject...), we fortunately had baby oil to hand and I was able to lube her pretty well in advance of penetration. We continued using it for I guess a couple of weeks after that, but soon found that we didn't need it...

My advice, not necessarily what you wish to hear, is give a little to get a little? When my last partner informed me--seemingly out of the blue and in contradiction to what limited evidence my skewed perspective was capable of observing--that she didn't enjoy anal sex, I told her that given the choi...

This was unfortunately often a problem with my (now ex-) wife; over time it became a real turn-off for me, especially when I was fingering her. Less of an annoyance or issue when I was fucking her, for whatever that is worth. I imagine that diet and general attentiveness to her appearance, inside an...

Yessica, these are such wonderful, inspiring, and arousing posts: I've enjoyed every word and every image--and I hope there will be more of both. I don't know when if ever I would have occasion to visit Pakistan, but if I ever do...I hope I make friends with your husband?! ;) :lol: :oops: Thank you ...

OK, ok, due to popular demand--or at least the kind indulgence of two participants on this list :) ;) :lol: I will now try to narrate my second fondest anal experience, with the hopes that maybe someday I'll have still more stories both to relate and to surpass what I've already described on this li...

I can't imagine having anal sex without rimming before--anymore than I could imagine vaginal sex without oral sex before (although my last partner in fact preferred vaginal sex straight away, followed by oral sex, then anal if/when I was lucky...). Rimming isn't only necessary preparation for the ma...

Hello. This is my first post in this amazing forum. To be honest, to find this forum was a blessing. I love everything releated to women's ass, so you can imagine how great this forum results to me. Ok, to the point. I've had for many years anal sex with different girlfriends but I didn't use to us...

I'm reminded of what a linguist once said when asked the difference between a dialect and a language: a language is a dialect with its own navy! The difference between "fetish" and "lifestyle" is ultimately semantic, not substantive; although I don't identify with the label "anal only" in my sexual ...