Canadian butt lover, This old post of mine might be of some help to you & your wife: If you want to do the anal thing w/o douching first you and your partner just need to get a bit creative. My wife & I have been AO for 20+ years and she has always refused to use an enema so this is what we do. Firs...

Watch this old Marilyn Chambers guide to enjoyable anal sex video together. Just try to keep from laughing during the corny music soundtrack that often accompanied these old videos. http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=marilyn+chambers+anal+instruction&&view=detail&mid=B1BEDC046FE886672AB3B1BEDC046FE...

Thanks for your educated responses from a female perspective to this forum Buttwoman. In reference to the above posting about orgasmic contractions in your lover's anus I will add this. While my wife is working up to her orgasm(s) she does not want me going in too deep. She says I hit something up t...

I introduced my wife to vibrators and anal sex and she loves both. Unlike you she cannot cum from anal without using her vibrator. I like to see her satisfied so I have no ego problems with her stimulating her clit while I bang her ass. She started out with a small battery powered one called a Pocke...

And here is a book on the subject.

https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-A ... 1573440280

Check out Tristan's web site too.
She is really into teaching women how to have fun with anal sex.

This old Marilyn Chambers guide to satisfying anal sex is a good place to start:

https://xhamster.com/movies/3215785/mar ... l_sex.html

Good luck with your anal adventures.

Good to hear about your love affair with anal sex Monica.

Canassman is giving some good advice in the post above Musicrockblues. Sometimes you gotta start slow and let your partner guide you along. After I gently finger my wife's ass for a bit she has me press my cock against her anus but tells me not to move while she presses back and takes me slowly insi...

She is probably feeling "full" down there and is embarrassed about making a mess. This is tricky territory to negotiate as it deals with our fear of shit. My wife & I have gotten way past this which I describe in some of my other posts. If she isn't comfortable with a beforehand enema then you need ...

You could see if she will agree to minimal penetration with her in control. You might get her to try doggie style with her controlling how deep you go in her well lubed ass. It can be very mutually stimulating to just get the head in, holding it there while she relaxes around your glans, pulling it ...