Well tonight is the night. I've been edging myself for the past 2 or so days and to say I'm excited / ready is an understatement. A nice dinner, a show at the performing arts center and when he least expects it, we'll start the journey to see if anal only is going to work for us.

I hate the interruption from pulling out. I've always preferred my husband finish inside of me. Even though I know I'm clean, I have a huge mental block over ass to mouth and honestly find it kind of gross. Mainly I think porn has depicted it as a demeaning act and has rendered it as some sort of "g...

I was wondering... was your friend supportive of the idea? How exactly did you find this site? Good luck! :) Short version - we were talking about our respective sex lives, I lamented about the massive decline in ours and the guilt I was feeling. She knows about my vagina issues. She also knows tha...

I've talked about our sexual intimacy issues briefly in my introduction but to recap - complications from vaginal delivery, has made vaginal sex difficult if not outright impossible due to pain. Corrective surgery has not addressed the issue either. I gave birth 15 months ago, we've had sexual inter...

You can try to engage in enema play as foreplay (if he's into that); the building up expectation might really heighten the common complicity that arises from doing anal alone. In the long run, however, I believe enemas can mess up with your natural ability to have bowel movements, might cause elect...

I'm nervous to be honest. We've only had intercourse 5 times in the past 15 months (minus 6 weeks for healing post-baby), all of that vaginal. We've had a lot of oral but he doesn't cum from oral sex so he generally just masturbates himself while going down on me. But we haven't had anal since I was...

So I was raised that it was exit only back there. I had a lot of hangups so you can imagine that finally making a move in that direction, with the assistance of "good times" notwithstanding, I had a lot of apprehension. I know a lot of people respond differently but in talking to a few girlfriends t...

After a rather explicit conversation with a friend of mine, through a roundabout way, I came upon this website. Long story short, I had some complications from my pregnancy / delivery that has made vaginal intercourse both painful and difficult. I'll spare you the details but after a 15 months and t...