My wife and I are in our mid 60’s. Sexually actively the entire 40+ years we’ve been together. Much anal play but no penetration because she couldn’t take me past her first sphincter. Three years ago, she started custom hormone therapy, and I started testosterone replacement injections. My wife want...

I’ll have to answer on behalf of my wife... she isn’t a member of the forum, but knows I am. We’re both in our 60’s and have been mostly AO for the last several years. We’ve enjoyed a great sex life for 40+ years which included anal play, but not penetrative anal sex. I’m average length, but quite g...

Looking for advice from the forum. Without special diet preparations and planning, what is the best way to clean the rectum before anal play and sex? My wife uses water and/or saline enemas, but she doesn’t hold the water/saline in, she just pushes it right back out. She did this twice last night be...

Messy doesn’t bother me, but my wife gets a little self conscious. A small towel wipes it away, and what she really wants is a strong anal orgasm, so it’s never stopped us from what we love to do.

For me, starting tight and then loosening up after she’s cum several times makes me smile. I’m girthy and when my cock slides in and out effortlessly, it won’t take long before I cum balls deep in her ass. The thing about this forum is how quickly I get an erection contributing answers and questions...

Pluggedkitty: The reason for my question was the result of a need to re-lube (as you mentioned) while I was fucking my wife’s ass. We were using Pur Backdoor. Immediately after I pulled out, she missed a second orgasm, and I shot my load on the bed and floor as I was reaching for our good quality wa...

I’m interested in hearing from others about lubes. My wife and I enjoy anal sex using her own natural lubrication and saliva. With extensive use of fingers and toys (no lubricant), her rectum becomes quite wet and she will actually excrete the fluids. She cleanses before ass play and anal penetratio...

Just read a comment regarding hormones. Agree birth control alters a woman’s body, but post-menopausal, custom hormone therapy for her, and testosterone injections for me, have elevated our sex life (almost entirely anal only) to levels off the chart. Before you throw up, we are both in excellent co...

If you’ve read this forum, you understand there are MANY intelligent and reasonable people who LOVE anal sex. Some advice... if you are a male who wants anal with a female who’s never had anal sex, take it slow and spend much time teasing her asshole with tongue, fingers, and toys. Gradually insert ...

For my wife, missionary with her knees pulled back and me standing produces her strongest anal orgasms. We go to the corner of the bed (it’s at exactly the right height) and her ass hangs over so I can easily penetrate full depth. I believe it’s an angle that allows my cock to stimulate the clitoral...