Anal only and only with Carla since January, 1981. I can speak knowledgeably and truthfully about what it's like for the same couple to have anal sex over 3000 times.

If the "hot water" does not scald your anus coming out, then your'e OK. My wife Carla preferred hot tap water for years, but I think it was because the temp went down between the faucet and Carla's expulsion. There was filling the bag, burping the hose, letting the water run down to her comfort leve...