Agree with simba

Yep, if the medical issues are worked out, all that's left is to talk it out.

No he doesn't pound hard. At least not often. It's the duration and because he wants to have sex for the same time that we did with plain vaginal. What with it being tighter I thought he would be cumming sooner but it doesn't seem to have made any difference. He'll just slow down or stop for a brea...

Potential underlying medical condition may be limiting libido. I'd talk to a doc.

When she wants to work my ass, she's welcome to. I can orgasm anal-only too, which might be part of why I'm good at getting women there. That said, her desire for cock usually takes precedence unless we have *lots* of time to play, which is rare.

17, I think. Mid 40s now.

As I see it, the value would be holding a vibrating egg in her pussy during anal sex. Try this if she's into having anything in her pussy.

Zero reason for pain. If you like causing it, anal may not be for you. Give her a spanking.

analsexonly wrote:If that's happening regularly, the person being penetrated needs to add more fiber to their diet and drink more water regularly, as well as go to the bathroom 15 to 30 minutes before having sex.

Or *less* fiber!!

Of course it's an instinct! Does anyone really think it's a coincidence that the average rectum is the exact same size & shape as the average cock, that it is normally empty, and that it is packed with nerves that can cause orgasm? Regardless of one's theory on why, it's pretty clear we're meant to ...