Regardless of how this relationship turns out, it seems that you have the best of all worlds, sexually. You admit that you enjoy anal more, but if I'm understanding you correctly you're somewhat conflicted about whether or not you want this to be anal "only." I have to ask, why does it have to be e...

lostin_herhead wrote: My favorite thing about anal, aside from the beautiful feelings, is that in my opinion it has more of a capacity to be intimate and violent at the same time than other sex does.

It doesn't have to be that way. It depends on if the guy is a jerk or not.

Welcome, by the way.

The rise of anal has been relentless, no question about that. But it's overwhelming presence in porn is a two edged sword. On the one hand the visibility erodes the social taboo, while at the same time removing the fear factor and presenting anal as something fun for everyone. On the other hand, it ...

You two sound really happy. He is so lucky to have you. Thank you! We are still together, and although it's too soon to say if he's Mr Right I'm already feeling better about this relationship than a few of the other recent ones. Well the moment came, and I had to ask him if he was happy doing what ...

I'm not surprised that there has been a quiet spell. Some of us have lives you know! I haven't visited in weeks for example, and when you have such a small community it takes time to build a rapport. And this board has been running for what, about 6 or 8 months? It just takes time people :roll: Howe...

Although you're right, "some" guys have hangups about anal sex, I would think that this is far more the exception than the rule. You can say that again. However, my thinking, broadly speaking, is that those "hang ups" are caused by other women. They are made to feel guilt for simply wanting to try ...

Hi amorous. You carry on doing just as you have been. Anal/vaginal isn't some kind of binary choice. I find you can mix as you please, and different relationships have gone different ways. I do understand those on either side, and that there are those who like to keep to one activity exclusively bec...

Made me rethink everything about what sex means, both to me and to my previous preconceptions about men. Before I always used to see guys as all essentially the same, with the same desires. If I had heard about AO years ago I would never have imagined the would be men that would only want anal with ...

I do wonder is this is just the novelty for him. If not do you intend to continue with the AO? We are still going strong. We were apart for most of the holidays, but he hadn't lost any of his enthusiasm we we got time together this last weekend. I can't say yet if it is just the novelty factor. I a...

Hello.

Don't be ashamed or think there is something wrong with you. You aren't the first guy like this and you certainly won't be the last!

I don't know how it is in Poland but mostly women are changing their attitude to anal.