I don't care whether you find it believable or not, and it is certainly possible for someone to misrepresent themselves online, but when someone anonymously contacts a site offering anal and anal only advice asking for suggestions on how to convince her male partner to have more anal sex or to try g...

Fair point. You are certainly correct that it's a large number, even if it is less than half of the female population. As for encountering women who are or would like to be anal only but don't often meet a man willing to do it, they make up a decent percentage of the single anal only women out there...

40% is a minority.

A minority of people polled in most sex surveys admit to having even tried anal once. So I wouldn't say it's mainstream yet. It's mainstream in certain communities, perhaps, but not on the whole. There are areas where a majority of (ignorant) men are opposed to the idea of anal and it's seen as a gr...

I think as anal in general becomes more mainstream and a common part of a normal sex life, just as oral sex has become, the number of couples going anal only will also increase. It will always be a smaller set of people, but when negative ideas about anal are out of the way and people are able to le...

I don't want this site to turn into a dating site. I'm certainly not going to forbid people from expressing interest in dating people with similar interests, or from saying they're available, but there are a lot of downsides to a dating site that I think would harm the open discussion environment th...

Hello and welcome! Sounds like you'll fit right in here.

The use of the term "subverting" in this context isn't mine originally, but a woman who posted somewhere some time ago (unfortunately, I am no longer aware of the original source, but it stuck in my mind) about why anal only personally appealed to her.

For some, it's just a challenge, something new to try with a partner, either to spice things up or just because they like trying new things and seeing if they can be satisfied exclusively from anal for an extended period of time. For some, it's more intimate than vaginal sex and leads to a much clos...

Unknown. Over the years, I have come across quite a few people in various places online who have or already had been anal only, or who tried it for a period of several months. But no idea on actual statistics.