Don't be despondent Canassman! I think you should take what she say's at face value and try not to let any negative thoughts or doubts drive a wedge between you. It is only natural that she feels a certain degree of ambivalence about the lifestyle you have chosen. I would find it odd if she did not,...

Congratulations! Always a pleasure to see another forum member go fully AO. My wife and I had a similar, gradual transition to AO. I too remember that sudden thrill when I looked back and couldn't remember when the last time was, but felt confident we'd never have to compromise on vaginal again. It'...

One of the thing I always wanted to ask to you guys is how do you see a "oral only" lifestyle. Boring. Sex isn't sex without anal. I have to admit that I agree with that sentiment, though it would possibly be a minor improvement over a vaginal only lifestyle. I can't see why, but I suppose there ar...

Welcome to the forum. What you want is neither a fantasy nor unrealistic. As you yourself have said, perhaps you were just too shy to admit it, but the desire for AO is not uncommon at all. What I would say, is that perhaps finding a woman who is already AO, as you would wish, is less likely. If you...

Thanks for that! Kind of catchy too. It's been stuck in my head all day.

It's regrettable that the lack of sex appears down to a lack of opportunity and mood. I feel for you. Otherwise, from what you describe, when in the mood she becomes extremely aroused and is both willing and able to do anal with ease. Perhaps you need to focus on, and create, appropriate conditions ...

To me it sounded like the relationship wasn't going to work, and the anal was merely a side issue. She was young and lacked the maturity to appreciate give and take. You've handled it in the correct way and have been able to move on. I wish you well in the future and am sure you'll find somebody mor...

analonlylondonebony wrote:I speak as an AO lady here. I'll take the dry spell. That would be better than the resentment of doing something I find unpleasant.

Are you going through a dry spell ebony?

Is it just the vaginal you find unpleasant? There are other things on the menu besides anal/vaginal.

Welcome to the forum. Are you still in a relationship with the woman who has strong orgasms from anal play? If so, that's a great foundation for an AO relationship.

There was a similar story in the mainstream UK press not all that long ago. I wish I could remember where. While I still don't really approve of, or think the procedure necessary, I'll admit it has positive effects: 1. Removing the 'shame' associated with the anus 2. Making it an acceptable talking ...