Hello all, as some of you may know, or have gleaned, this forum no longer has an active Admin, and the payments to maintain the site tun out in September. As a moderator I have no access to the Administrator features and cannot change anything. As well, it has become increasingly difficult to deal w...

Just checked it out, I’m ok with the rules, we have enough to do some gentle reminders abt tone if needed and to ban anyone who is egregiously over the line.
I’m not sure how many moderators we need but I’d think 4 is a good number?

Congratulations. Sexual compatibility is as important as any other factor I feel. Good to find someone you love and are on the same page with sexually.

Intro done! The forum looks great! I feel I have hope again! Thank u for this work to maintain (improve) the community

I’m on. I’m not sure how to make a post or reply to one

I respect your experience and am sad u went through it. So without any denial of your experience I want to agree that those are all signs of a toxic person, and I’d like to point out that men also do those same tactics - some more than others. As a person who has assisted abused women escape such re...

@dnick I wish I could like your post. Great ideas

This is a great idea. I think we need to prep a new site. I don’t get the tech part at all, but would support in any way I can. From the perspective of being a moderator with limited authority, I’d love to see some kind of a verification process for new members before they can post, or else posts re...

I have no knowledge of either the issues involved in somehow making this forum accessible in the future or the legalities, but I support the idea.
I too fear something has happened to the admin.

Where are the other mods ? Inactive ? Presumably. I am happy to say I figured out how to ban the IP address of the spammer - the fake user accounts all had the same ip. And since doing that, no new spammer has joined. So I have stalled any new spam attacks. I am thinking of just trying to slowly de...