First thing: don't worry about orgasm. Get together to be together, and that's it. Try to see the experience as an end on itself, not means to an end: this will not only bring you closer but probably make you do it more often. This, in turn, will heighten the whole experience, even beforehand, and p...

I'm sorry for the troublesome situation you're in. :| Nevertheless, I think this is where you should step in as a man: it seems that you're letting this "trauma" take control over the situation instead of you both, so the the boat is rocking ever so slowly towards its destination without commitment,...

Those contractions aren't rare; they're also gone after a little while, so typically you'd be able to continue after a couple of minutes. Lovemaking is a mutual act , therefore, there can be NO concessions. What I mean by that is that it's not o.k. to make trade-offs, e.g. "I'll go down on you if yo...

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Be blunt, be kind, and settle things straight. If she doesn't want there's no point in this endless struggle — same goes if she wants. When I was younger I was very talkative, patient and fond in such a way that it was emasculated to a grea...

Enhancement surgery is not only expensive but I am yet to see one that looks natural (specially when moving/certain positions). Not only that, it completely defeats the purpose, i.e., what that part of the body represents. For the sake of argument, let's suppose I get implants all over me: chest, bi...

To answer your question analonly, I said that to tell people that he can be a bit insecure sometimes. Which doesn't bother me except that he should know that he gets the job done and I don't in anyway want him to think that he doesn't. Or to make him think that I think he needs "help". I THINK I un...

Bringing masturbation into the lovemaking scene can always be complicated. If he enjoys seeing you get yourself off then the vibrator on itself won't be a problem (unless you're talking about incorporating it during intercourse). If this is what you mean, then the main issue becomes whether you need...

As I've just answered recently: look for Pjur. They will have the right lube for you, that's for sure. Hi. We've tried a few of theirs. None delivers on the non-searing part, sadly. I will give that natural Xantaan another go. How can you be sure lube is the problem if all of them failed the test?

It wouldn't hurt for somebody with a Tumblr account to alert them of this forum, though, I guess.

As I've just answered recently: look for Pjur. They will have the right lube for you, that's for sure.