I am very opposed to this response of notnice66 for a very clear reason. My ex wanted anal, she said, but when I tried she simply couldn’t relax, could let me in and enjoy it. No matter what I tried as foreplay, fingers in her ass felt great to her. Always, but once my cock went in, she acted like I...

@notnice66 you surely picked the right nickname. I wonder what you’re even doing here ?

Ass to mouth is best done after using an anal douche. Then there ‘s no problem. My girlfriend does ass to mouth everytime we have sex, but she’s always clean.

So @Germanik any update ? It’s always a bit sad if people come here for advise and vanish after it’s been given.

Another thing which works very well is this: Lick her pussy and clit untill she’s very horny and dripping wet. Finger her pussy. Every now and then move pussyjuice and saliva to her asshole. When she’s really horny, swith from fingering her pussy to rubbing her asshole and if everything feels nice y...

Well, you don’t even need to put your finger in. Take some lube on your finger and rub it ON her asshole. Don’t go in. Rub around her hole and massage her spincter. Just keep rubbing her asshole, and her clit a the same time. There is a good possibility at some point her asshole will open up and you...

Waterbased Pjur was very good. But all synthetic lubes gave some sort of additive which CAN cause it to sting. Coconut oil never does that.

Her fear is what holds her back. This is not simple to get passed. Buy coconut oil/butter in the grocarystore. Use plenty of lube (coconut oil) Buy a small buttplug or a trainer set Start with fingers (clip your nails !) And move up to the plug in her ass. Then fuck her pussy while she has the plug ...

Welcome to the forum. We need some extra info first.

Did she already have anal and it went wrong, or is she afraid because she was told it hurts ?

Since forums have been moving to facebook groups, support is declined a lot. I’ve seen many forum die off that way. Some with tons of great info. Too bad.