This is very interesting to me. In what culture is this a normal practice?

Hello, Backdoorbart, and welcome! Your frustrations aren't unique, however, I think that too many people who are seeking an AO relationship are going about it the wrong way. Setting out to find an AO partner "right out of the gate" is highly improbable. I think you'll find that "most" "of the people...

Well said, mardoblolo, and I agree with you completely. Apart from the need for artificial lubrication, the anus is the perfect receptacle for the penis and, I also strongly believe that the anus/rectum has evolved to perfectly accommodate the human need for pleasure that far exceeds the necessity o...

Why can't you just tell her that having anal sex "occasionally" is important to you? I really don't think that's asking too much, especially from someone who already knows there is pleasure and mutual enjoyment to be found in it. People often say that no one should ever have to do something that don...

Lily, you are living that union between two people that far exceeds the physical aspect. I applaud that. I also understand the "seeming" contradiction of loving someone so fully and not wanting to change that dynamic for any reason, and also having certain needs that go unfulfilled causing personal ...

Hello, Dreamer, and welcome to the forum! I'm sorry to hear about your present dilemma, but as long as you're breathing there's always hope.
You said that you were going to share more about this, but so far I haven't seen anything. I"m curious to hear your story.

Welcome, Lily! Does your husband know about your desire for anal, and has he ever obliqued you anally? I guess age really doesn't have any bearing on it, as life is full of many twists, turns and variables, but you just seem awfully young to be in a sexless marriage. Is this something that can be co...

Hi, Flosstin, and welcome! This isn't really a chat or hookup site, but it never hurts to try.

Hello, singleinDC, and welcome to the forum. As far as finding an anal only partner is concerned, that may prove to be very difficult. I think it's safe to say that most people who are in an anal only relationship evolve into that over a period of time. As you can see, though, it is possible.

Thanks, Kat. I hope you don't mind my curiosity and questions. I'm sorry that things haven't worked out for you yet. Sadly, these same guys may look back some day and regret their actions. I think that some of these reactions are also largely psychological, in that if they had the option of your vag...