Plugs are appealing to people because: they feel good, they're good for warming up before fitting something larger inside, and they let people keep something up their ass while moving around or out in public, without other people knowing, which makes them feel sexy and naughty.

Hi! You're absolutely welcome here! Anyone at all who is open to friendly discussion is welcome. You raise an interesting point regarding whether or not it qualifies in the same way as an anal only lifestyle for homosexual men or transsexuals for whom vaginal penetration is not an option anyway. The...

Congratulations! Thanks for sharing, and enjoy showing him how much fun butts can be.

It's definitely something that varies from person to person. I like vulvas just fine—but I prefer anuses for actual sex. I like involving both in oral sex.

I disagree, as I commonly see "no lube" to mean the other in many places, often with a qualifier right alongside to indicate clearly what they mean, e.g. "we don't use any lube, just saliva".

I believe (as we've seen here, partly) almost everyone who talks about "no lube" means "no artificial lubricants" but still use saliva or vaginal fluids as a lubricant. There are a very few people who do have anal sex with no lube, but they experience (and desire) pain.

I may be wrong, but it's my impression that the primary risk factor for anal cancer as a result of anal sex is HPV infection. Simply having anal sex with a clean partner doesn't cause cancer. Unsafe sex toys and lubricants could potentially cause it, but I've never heard of it actually happening in ...

This seems to often be the case for women who cannot cum from anal only naturally—if they withhold from vaginal and clitoral stimulation for an extended period of time they usually eventually begin to have direct anal orgasms as their body adapts to the new primary stimulation source.

It is not for every post, it's for the first few posts by each new user, to filter out spammers. After the first few have been approved manually, all future posts can be made without manual approval.

In an attempt to keep the General forum cleaned up with more focus on anal only as a general subject, a new Introductions forum has been created for new members to introduce themselves, and all existing introductions moved there. Please do not post new introduction threads in General.