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- Sun Dec 31, 2017 9:33 am
- Forum: General
- Topic: What does Anal Only Lifestyle mean to you?
- Replies: 40
- Views: 40891
Re: What does Anal Only Lifestyle mean to you?
I'm the maverick of the group, and appear to be the lone representative of a different angle to the anal-only concept. I love vaginas. I love a woman's anus, and also my own. However, my wife of 20 years became anti-sex (of any kind) several years ago, once she became fully menopausal (a real shock ...
- Sat Dec 30, 2017 11:42 am
- Forum: General
- Topic: Terrible sex life
- Replies: 12
- Views: 8408
Re: Terrible sex life
This sounds so much like my own marriage, I'm only glad to hear I'm not alone in being stuck in such a vexing situation. I can offer the advice that you don't want to hear: - If you have reached this impasse, despite your obvious efforts to be understanding and adaptable, no amount of further effort...
- Fri Nov 10, 2017 9:18 am
- Forum: Challenges
- Topic: Straight male and anal only September
- Replies: 7
- Views: 12693
Re: Straight male and anal only September
It may be absurd for most folks, but I have found that the trick is to avoid orgasms. The orgasm is, at a very deep level, a decision to release energy. My goal has been to accumulate and circulate energy. If, fundamentally, orgasm is a move to initiate and externalize new life, then to not orgasm i...
- Fri Nov 03, 2017 6:51 am
- Forum: Share
- Topic: Passive lifestyle
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7044
Re: Passive lifestyle
Lucky guy! I am very envious. I LOVED role inversion, when my wife was still active. I guess I still do, only it's difficult to be sure, since I have no sex partner anymore. The kill switch got activated on my wife's sex-drive, so I now play alone. Over the course of years, I seem to have gotten use...
- Wed Sep 20, 2017 2:41 pm
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: Hello, I'm Simba (bisexual)
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5311
Re: Hello, I'm Simba (bisexual)
Interesting. In what way?
Perhaps I am confused because the Dom/sub description always gives me the idea that one party is supposed to feel empowered, while the other gets a thrill from feeling disempowered.
Perhaps I am confused because the Dom/sub description always gives me the idea that one party is supposed to feel empowered, while the other gets a thrill from feeling disempowered.
- Tue Sep 19, 2017 1:06 pm
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: Hello, I'm Simba (bisexual)
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5311
Re: Hello, I'm Simba (bisexual)
Oh. I would have guessed wrong. Funny! I thought it was some metaphysical energetic exercise.
- Mon Sep 18, 2017 8:19 pm
- Forum: General
- Topic: Toying alone for years, who wants a friend?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 10818
Re: Toying alone for years, who wants a friend?
Yep, I play alone also. I used to play with my wife - vaginal for her, and anal for me to add spark to our interludes - until she became completely asexual. Once that happened, she wants no form of sex at all, let alone anal. Then I find she considers my un-vanilla interests weird and perverted. We ...
- Mon Sep 18, 2017 5:59 pm
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: Hello, I'm Simba (bisexual)
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5311
Re: Hello, I'm Simba (bisexual)
I certainly welcome a bisexual person. I'm 85-95% straight, with the other 5-15% being outposts of bisexual curiosity. You mention "power exchange." Though I could hazard a guess as to what I think it ought to mean, it sounds like a recognized thing that people do, which has a common description amo...
- Mon Aug 14, 2017 10:30 am
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: Hello~
- Replies: 13
- Views: 6968
Re: Hello~
I'd advise not getting down on yourself, if you do happen to stimulate your penis. You will only get yourself locked into a useless vicious cycle. I'd advise to INTEGRATE your seemingly conflicting drives, and understand them for what you can truly discover them to be. I, myself, have gradually move...
- Mon Jul 24, 2017 11:00 am
- Forum: Introductions
- Topic: So glad i found this place!
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4738
Re: So glad i found this place!
I can admit I would not like NO vaginal sex, even though I prefer anal. However, I know I'd be fascinated to ask questions and learn why. This, in itself, would be immensely titillating. I know I'd be fascinated by the fact that a woman wanted only the kind of penetration that I myself could also ex...