Well, this is turning out to be a lot more challenging than I expected. I've managed to sneak some alone time this week, but not getting an orgasm is... frustrating. I'm enjoying the anal a lot, it turns me on and the penetration itself is pleasurable, My pussy gets incredibly wet, which surprised ...

There are women—including several who are members here—who do fetishize complete vaginal abandonment. It may not be an extremely common fetish/interest, but it certainly exists.

There hasn't been a good overview on the subject I've ever seen—it would be great if people who have been able to learn to orgasm anally would chime in here—but cold turkey on the clit seems to be what people generally recommend, the idea being that if you can easily orgasm from another source your ...

How you're wired can definitely make it easier one way or the other, but orgasm is largely a mental thing, and it has definitely been possible for some people to train themselves to orgasm anally when they were not able to "by default" (as it were).

More people talking openly about enjoying it and treating it as a normal, fun, safe part (or majority) of a healthy sex life is going to be a major part of turning around the idea that it's wrong.

Welcome! Do any such friends who are in the know seem interested, or do they all remain unconvinced? I ask because I'm interested in how much people's apparent shock and horror (etc.) at the idea of anal sex is influenced by friends.

Welcome. We're happy to have you here as well, joining the many others who have announced their preference for anal sex and the fact that there's nothing shameful about that. There are a lot more out there who haven't yet found this site, so it's always great to get new members who suddenly discover...

marcus is now a moderator as well. That will do for moderators for the time being—if the forum continues to grow, more might be sought out.

Please welcome the2beans as the site's first moderator! I'm still looking for at least one more for the time being, so if anyone else is interested they should say so now.

Welcome! There are a lot of reasons why a couple may choose to go anal only. In some cases, one partner may greatly prefer anal and not get much pleasure out of vaginal sex in comparison, while the other partner may equally enjoy both but be willing to go anal only because of the preferences of the ...