Hi Shared Butt Slut, Enjoyed hearing about your lifestyle. My wife and I have a similar arrangement. We were in an open relationship when we first got together and made it an agreement as part of getting married. She had never had anal when we met, but took to it like a duck in water soon after. She...

When I was 25 and dating my first wife, she was a virgin when we met (she was 23) from a Good Christian small town background. We starting having sex shortly after meeting and she was keen to learn, but had no idea really what is was all about. Shortly after our first time together we were having va...

Well, probably like many, stuck at home. Luckily with my beautiful, much younger, anal-obsessed wife. I am guessing for those exploring the lifestyle, this might present lots of opportunities for some backdoor fun and games. Anyone trying anything interesting or have a good story?

Good to hear that there are more than a few out there that are fine with no lube anal. I am definitely not against it, and generally keep a bottle of water-based lube handy, but over a lifetime of anal I have been surprised by the number of women are can not only manage it without, but prefer it.

In a 'western' context, having any penetrative sex probably counts. But in many places in the world where there can be real consequences for young women who lose their vaginal virginity before marriage, considering anal only as not being a loss of virginity is important. 'Shaming' the family, as stu...

You know, I hadn't really thought about it so much from the female AO perspective. But I imagine you are right. Finding a good partner and one that is not only ok with AO...but really happy with that situation probably isn't the easiest thing to find. I wish you the best of luck. Maybe this forum co...

I wish someone would have explained it all to me when I was 14-15. Sex ed back then was pretty vague and only focused on the basics of reproduction. Since I went to high school in the 70's and 80's, it was before the internet, so not may places to get useful info. The first time I tried anal with my...

For us, we always start off in missionary. She uses a little vibrator on her clit while I enter slowly and in stages. As soon as I am past the two sphincters I pause for a bit. Generally, within about 3-4 minutes her first orgasm is approaching and she hands me the vibrator to turn off while she con...

Hi Ashley,
Welcome here. I don't think there are any other trans members...at least none that post regularly. Hopefully you see some value in joining the community here though. Shame that you had to wait so long in life to find a way to be yourself but at least you got there. Enjoy the explorations!

Thanks for sharing that Buttwoman. I am not sure how common it may be but it sounds like anal sex is what you were made for. Always lucky when people can find what they like early. I have known more than a few women, and men, who never figured out what they really liked or their particular kink unti...