My question is, do you think you are just happening to find guys very interested in anal, or is your openness to anal unlocking the inherent preference for anal in all men?! I often ask myself the same question. A higher proportion of the men I have known have liked and/or had a preference for anal...

blizzak wrote:I don't enjoy vag sex anymore. Lacks the intensity

But did you enjoy it at some stage in your life? What changed?

I'd always felt something wasn't quite right. Orgasms were always underwhelming, although I did find oral somewhat better. But still, when I was younger I was always left with the thought "Is this it?". The question is, is it better because it is really better, or because I'm getting the kind of re...

Are we in tune? I don't know, He does have a one track mind and I'm going along with it, although it is kind of exciting to do so. If it doesn't work out though...am I being unfair by giving him false expectations for the future? I don't think so - like you say, it is what it is, and for the moment...

Thanks for the link. Also worth reading the stories that they refer to. The title is a little misleading though, don't you think? Anal isn't yet becoming a replacement, just a popular alternative. Which is not surprising as year on year when the statistics are published more couples are having (or a...

While I agree with the idea that most of the time it shouldn't hurt, it is a fact that some pain at some point is unavoidable. Over the years the more anal I've done the better it has become, but if I abstain for a period there can be a little discomfort getting back into it. Or with a new guy who i...

:) I'm really pleased for you both. Sounds like you're really in tune with each other - if you're both enjoying the sex, then keep doing it, you needn't label it right away. Are we in tune? I don't know, He does have a one track mind and I'm going along with it, although it is kind of exciting to d...

I've discussed it with him, because it really matters to me that he's on board and ok with it, and not just doing it to please me. It looks like he had a few issues about his masculinity if he was only doing anal, how it was going to affect me, and just the plain taboo of it. He has also gone on to...

I've just noticed 63 pages of members, most of which don't look legitimate. Has the site admin been seen around here recently? Is anyone running this place?

Please come back we love you!

Talking about my own experiences and current situation had got me thinking. Now, I know their aren't so many other women on the forums, which this is mostly directed at, but anyone is free to answer. I've noticed that with men, for the ones interested in anal, they generally are very passionate abou...