I like sex to be spontaneous and so if it involves my arse, there is a good chance it will be messy. I am ok with this. The smell is arousing and there is something very sexy about seeing a cock emerge from my bottom streaked with brown and all stinky.

I was in a very loving relationship some years ago and although we weren't anal only, there was a lot of anal sex. My lover surprised me one evening. His cock was deep in my bum and he was getting close. He whispered in my ear that he wanted to finish in my mouth. I agreed. I was very much in love a...

Early inmy anal sex experience I also had a lover with a large penis. He was very keen to do anal and I wanted to oblige him but at first it didn't work - him behind me blindly pushing and causing me a bit of pain. It wasn't a matter of lubrication, more that he was inexpert and neither of us really...

Not a fan. Could lead to confusion, especially early in a relationship. If I'm with a new lover and I say 'put it in my pussy', I might get it in the wrong opening.

Yosemitespam, you made me flinch in remembered pain when you wrote: When she gets off (not even slightly subtle) , we usually finish up with me in the front. Long time ago I got a nasty infection from a guy moving from arse to vag. Plus, almost as bad, a humiliating lecture from my doctor. So I hope...

Was in the car with a bf on the way to a seaside resort. He was saying how he was so horny, blah blah blah, and was gonna fuck me in all my holes as soon as we got there, blah blah blah. As we got closer I realised I was looking forward to taking him in the butt more than anywhere else. Although I l...

I had always used lube, and generously, until an evening at a club. I was dancing with a guy and went to the toilet. He burst in on me and we started making out in the stall. He soon had his dick out and spun me around, yanked my skirt down. I started babbling about birth control and he said not to ...

My message is to your gf:

run away!
get away from this self-centred prat!
find a guy (or woman) who is interested in you for more than just what you'll provide sexually

Wow, seems like people can't distinguish between recreational use and addiction. And if you haven't used chemicals (alcohol anyone?) to enhance a sexual encounter you are in a minority.

I have been seeing a younger guy recently - he is 31 and I am 42 - and once he understood that I am AO he has been a very enthusiastic and energetic lover. He came over last weekend and we soon got down to things then had an afternoon nap. I was cooking in the kitchen when he came in and after feeli...