My wife's libido increased a lot when we started having more anal sex. She used to be typically happy with vaginal sex once a week or so (but would see that I was taken care of the rest of the time). Since she started to enjoy anal play, she's usually up for anal 3-4 times a week now . She can tell...

I don't know if we're there yet. She does find it *much* easier than she did at the beginning and prep/penetration is less time/work now. She has opened up more so that I can thrust without much difficulty and she's able to have comfortable sex for longer than just 5 minutes which is obviously a big...

Loving this place also. And starting to spend too much time here! I discovered the analonly blog some time ago but being able to communicate with others like this is fantastic. At first I thought it was maybe only a few people who would be into this but thats clearly not the situation. Would also gi...

I'd like to ask all you anal experts what the best position (or positions) for:

a) Getting as deep as possible

b) Most comfortable for her for longer duration

Mostly we do doggy and we enjoy that but any advice on the above would be appreciated

The extreme part I meant for the no vaginal or clitoral contact. Not the salad tossing. I assume salad tossing is more common then most people might think. Not wrong about the "pureanal" then! I can see where he's coming from. The idea of a pure anal relationship is really erotic and exciting, whil...

Thanks, that's interesting to know. Makes you think if it does go that way for many couples, with anal edging out vaginal over time. I know for myself, that the more anal I've had the less I think about vaginal to the point of being able to pass on it completely. I suspect that my girl, while enjoyi...

I've no idea how it goes for other people. Does anal often start to replace vaginal sex once it becomes a regular thing? You don't hear that side, only those who didn't like it and stop after 1 or 2 times because they find it painful or whatever. If so it gives me hope that we can make a success of ...

I'm so with all you wanting to see the vagina left alone. If anything, it actually enhances the appeal of her vagina (so that I almost find it attractive) if its left alone. Sadly it doesn't happen often enough :( On the plus side, in those scenes where they ignore her vagina completely is usually t...

It's incredible isn't it? :D Vaginal sex just has nothing on that. My girlfriend also used to be a little tighter and I had more difficulty getting all the way in. The anus itself grips hard, then it gets a little looser, then around the head it narrows again. It feels so good I usually stop the thr...

The last thing you want is to come across pushy and have her resist purely because it seems like what she has always believed was her "normal" hole doesn't satisfy you. It's understandably difficult for some women to understand some men are entirely turned on by asses and little or not at all by va...