I'm new to the site (but definitely not to AO) so this seems an appropriate first post. If you're having AO sex frequently (several times a week), is it spontaneous or do you have standard procedures for the recipient to clean them and open them up? Fwiw I have a theory that if they're mentally prep...

I've spent most of my adult life in Sydney, Australia, and currently live in a rural idyll far north from there. My sex life began in an era (not exactly last week) when women were not expected to express any enthusiasm for sex at all, and any mention of anal sex would have produced only puzzled loo...