Giving and receiving are both awesome. Giving, for the same reason performing oral sex is enjoyable for anyone—it's nice to give such pleasure to your partner, and because it's particularly intimate. Receiving, because it feels really good, especially if coupled with a handjob or alternating between...

I'm convinced a lot of cream pies are faked. I've see videos of what seems like 2-4oz of a weirdly white and very low viscous fluid come pouring out. After just one guy. And knowing all the fake come on the market (yes. Even on amazon. Search!!) A lot are, and as you say you can usually identify th...

I've actually found almost all women are open to trying anal if you communicate your desires and intentions and mutually explore the idea and the fact that it can be really enjoyable if done right, then start at the very beginning and work up slowly with her clear consent for everything and the reas...

At the core, I'm happy if I can simply encourage people to try anal with techniques that are likely to result in a positive outcome, in order to experience it in the best circumstances possible and make their decision about whether they like it based on that rather than the negative experiences most...

Welcome!

How does your wife enjoy anal? Does she share your view of it as a priority over vaginal, or does she prefer vaginal instead? The reason I ask is because you say you wouldn't mind becoming anal only, and I'm curious if the limiting factor is more your wife than you?

Welcome! Most people who consider themselves anal only are only excluding vaginal intercourse and still incorporate external vaginal and clitoral stimulation, cunnilingus, and in some cases vaginal dildo play. So in the event she wanted to continue with those but was okay with all intercourse being ...

Welcome. Have you talked with her outside of the context of ongoing sex (e.g. when she feels no pressure to immediately do anything) about anal play and what her hesitations are about it? If not, I would suggest doing so. If you have any hope of encouraging her to try it, you'll need to know why she...

Looks like it's time to change the signup requirements yet again to deter the spambots. We'll see if this helps, and if I need to go back to the original process of manually approving new members I'll do so. I've deleted all 8,000 or so spam posts the bots made over not very many hours and blocked t...

Congratulations, and happy anniversary! To many more excellent anal only years.

I'm somewhat mixed, myself. I'd prefer an anal only relationship with zero vaginal sex at any point, but I also recognize the relative scarcity of women who are already anal only and that for most people to get to that point it's a process, so I feel that if I met someone who was compatible with me ...