Why do you like your partner?

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Why do you like your partner?

Post by Haunter » Fri Jun 30, 2017 7:17 am

I've always been curious about what makes a match a good one, so...
What's about your partner that you really like or are very attracted to? (Both physical and characterial) :)
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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by Sgt_Valk » Fri Jun 30, 2017 3:59 pm

Pretty face, big butt, sense of humor that is just dialed into mine. Very open to conversations of any type. Honest with each other. Kinda just an overall comfort level thats hard to match.
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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by gromm » Fri Jun 30, 2017 4:30 pm

My wife is a sexual superstar.

She can cum 20 times in 15 minutes and that's just a warmup for her. She's also a squirter and she's super aggressive when we fuck. To us, "making sweet, sweet love" means that she only chokes me a little bit and we kinda sorta take it easy on the biting and clawing. Every time she takes it in the ass (which is very nearly every time we have sex), she demonstrates that it's not a submissive act by shoving herself back on me and riding me like a rented mule. My role is more to hang on for dear life and do my best to return the favour. There is no question about who's in charge here.

Physically, she's got the biggest boobs nature could bestow upon a woman. I like all kinds of body types, so while she's on the big side, I love her soft curves.

But mentally? To top it all off, we're compatible in every way possible. We love to nerd out together watching sci-fi or Marvel movies - she took comic books really seriously as a teenager, and she tends to be highly competitive when it comes to technology and gaming. Oh, and the cherry on top is how I'm bisexual and her biggest fetish is watching me fuck both men and women. She loves pegging me too, because that way she gets to pretend to be a man and pound me in the ass like a little bitch.

I honestly can't think of any way I could possibly have been luckier than finding her.

Oh, and you should see the shit her best friend is into!

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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by Haunter » Mon Jul 03, 2017 9:09 am

Thanks subscribers for answering! It's been a pleasure to read.

@gromm: Do you mean she is a real sexual superstar, meaning a job? In this case I'd ask how does it feel to share your beloved one that way (if it happened to any partner of mine to be a real sexual superstar I wouldn't be upset a bit, since I'm not possessive nor jealous with people [only sometimes with my things!] ).

@to all: and how did you and your partner meet and come into a deep relationship? (ops.. I know I might have already have put this question somewhere else on the forum...)
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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by gromm » Mon Jul 03, 2017 2:26 pm

No, she's not a porn star by any measure. She's just a superstar in the ways I described. If we ever made porn, people would either feel horribly inadequate to compare themselves to her, or simply exclaim out loud that she's faking it, that real people can't perform like that.

Well, believe it or not, it's all true. She's the real deal.

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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by gromm » Mon Jul 03, 2017 2:36 pm

Actually, you wanted to know "what it's like to share your beloved in such a way" and, well, just like she gets off watching me fuck other people, I'm totally on board with her fucking other people just the same. And I don't mean that as a hypothetical, or to return the favour because she likes to watch me fuck other people.

Oh no. When we first started dating and it looked like we were getting serious, she had "the talk" with me. She told me that she had a fuck buddy on the side, and she sure as hell wasn't giving that up, so take it or leave it.

Clearly, I was on board with that. We had my first threesome (and the first time I had sex with a man) a few short weeks after that conversation. And he taught me how to make her squirt.

So how do I feel if my wife hooks up with someone who's a better lover than me? You know, the scariest possible scenario to a lot of people? I say "Cool! Show me how to do that!"

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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by Opus 54 » Sun Jul 09, 2017 8:58 am

My partner is...

fun and full of life & joy
intelligent
sensitive
thoughtful
a great partner
beautiful (her celebrity lookalike is Jennifer Garner)
unbelievably sexy (best sex of my life!)

I love this girl... gonna ask her to marry me. :D

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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by minorkeyes » Sun Aug 27, 2017 1:15 pm

My husband is the most understanding and intelligent man I have ever met. Yea, he is "smart" in the sense he is able to provide a very nice lifestyle of us, but he is emotionally in intelligent in a way I have rarely encounter. Compassionate and tender with his family but ideally forceful and no-nonsense when it comes to dealing with the world. Wonderful dad and truly a man who could not give a flip less of what others think.

I know my sister's heart and mind like it were my own. The deepest love I have ever known and the most beautiful person inside and out I have ever seen. I am still head over heels in love with her in the most passionate and inmate of ways. She literally looks more beautiful to me every day.

The three of us place a high premium on being our authentic selves and enjoying life to our best and most honest desire. I think that's why it works and we didn't have to ever debate or discuss things.

When my sister and I came to live together and realized we were always going to be together in someway- there was no discussion about going froward with an open relationship between us. We both just knew and lived our lives together in the way that made us happy.

Meeting our husband was a complete random occurrence. Sis worked with him and fancied him, they started sleeping together and eventually she was like, "Here is the deal between me and my sister..." and laid it out. My husband was pretty cool with it and over a year or two it developed mutually between the three of us in the most natural and unhurried way. No other man had been able to fit into our relationship previous.

I like to think our (me & sis) decision to live as we pleased attached to us others that were also interested in the same manner of personal authenticity. So it's not like we would have ever met a guy who was grossed out by incest among sisters and unwilling to live with us both.

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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by Haunter » Wed Aug 30, 2017 3:19 pm

minorkeyes wrote:My husband is the most understanding and intelligent man I have ever met. Yea, he is "smart" in the sense he is able to provide a very nice lifestyle of us, but he is emotionally in intelligent in a way I have rarely encounter. Compassionate and tender with his family but ideally forceful and no-nonsense when it comes to dealing with the world. Wonderful dad and truly a man who could not give a flip less of what others think.

I know my sister's heart and mind like it were my own. The deepest love I have ever known and the most beautiful person inside and out I have ever seen. I am still head over heels in love with her in the most passionate and inmate of ways. She literally looks more beautiful to me every day.

The three of us place a high premium on being our authentic selves and enjoying life to our best and most honest desire. I think that's why it works and we didn't have to ever debate or discuss things.

When my sister and I came to live together and realized we were always going to be together in someway- there was no discussion about going froward with an open relationship between us. We both just knew and lived our lives together in the way that made us happy.

Meeting our husband was a complete random occurrence. Sis worked with him and fancied him, they started sleeping together and eventually she was like, "Here is the deal between me and my sister..." and laid it out. My husband was pretty cool with it and over a year or two it developed mutually between the three of us in the most natural and unhurried way. No other man had been able to fit into our relationship previous.

I like to think our (me & sis) decision to live as we pleased attached to us others that were also interested in the same manner of personal authenticity. So it's not like we would have ever met a guy who was grossed out by incest among sisters and unwilling to live with us both.

Thank you for sharing. So tell me if I'm right: the first of you two that met your future husband was your sister, who explained that bond of yours to him, and then he became the husband of you two, at once?
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Re: Why do you like your partner?

Post by French Lover » Fri Sep 01, 2017 3:22 pm

I love my fiancée because she's perfect. I hope we will never break out...

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