minorkeyes wrote:My husband is the most understanding and intelligent man I have ever met. Yea, he is "smart" in the sense he is able to provide a very nice lifestyle of us, but he is emotionally in intelligent in a way I have rarely encounter. Compassionate and tender with his family but ideally forceful and no-nonsense when it comes to dealing with the world. Wonderful dad and truly a man who could not give a flip less of what others think.
I know my sister's heart and mind like it were my own. The deepest love I have ever known and the most beautiful person inside and out I have ever seen. I am still head over heels in love with her in the most passionate and inmate of ways. She literally looks more beautiful to me every day.
The three of us place a high premium on being our authentic selves and enjoying life to our best and most honest desire. I think that's why it works and we didn't have to ever debate or discuss things.
When my sister and I came to live together and realized we were always going to be together in someway- there was no discussion about going froward with an open relationship between us. We both just knew and lived our lives together in the way that made us happy.
Meeting our husband was a complete random occurrence. Sis worked with him and fancied him, they started sleeping together and eventually she was like, "Here is the deal between me and my sister..." and laid it out. My husband was pretty cool with it and over a year or two it developed mutually between the three of us in the most natural and unhurried way. No other man had been able to fit into our relationship previous.
I like to think our (me & sis) decision to live as we pleased attached to us others that were also interested in the same manner of personal authenticity. So it's not like we would have ever met a guy who was grossed out by incest among sisters and unwilling to live with us both.
This is just beautiful attitude, minorkeyes. It only shows that you are amazing and very mature person.
If only there were more people like you, the world would be much better place to live.
The mere reading your story turns me on.
Best wishes to all three of you.