I mean if it's for sadomasochistic purposes, wouldn't it be more fun to go in the opposite direction? Induce Sensory overload. If I ever get married (I'm saving myself), I won't take "I'm getting sensitive right now" to mean "stop," I'll take it to mean "Go harder, go faster you goddam sexual tyrannosaurus."
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A buildup of arousal through suppression of release over a period of time can make the occasional, less frequent orgasm significantly more powerful and satisfying.
For others, orgasms—especially clitoral orgasms—can be a pleasurable and satisfying release in the moment, but are emotionally draining and disappointing after the fact, a sort of downer that makes a person feel bad after it's happened and lose interest in sex for extended periods of time after. Orgasm denial/clitoral denial possibly combined with anal orgasms (which don't have that effect for many people) can be a way around this, allowing pleasure along with a constant buildup of arousal and no emotional crashes post-orgasm.
Also, like explained above, sometimes after a clitoral orgasm, I crash a bit and lose sex drive and interest. This is part of what brings me to this forum, hoping I can have my first anal only orgasm and not have that impact
What I get out of it? More intense orgasms when I'm given permission, and honestly I love feeling so sexual all the time. Sex is all over more satisfying, especially now that we're doing more anal.
The thing is, we don’t care. We just want to fuck. Long. And mainly in her asshole. Sometimes I get so overstimulated that my orgasm seems blocked at that edge where you feel like you only need that tiny push to get there… but it doesn’t happen ! And I don’t care. I love fucking her hard and deep in multiple positions, untill a point of satisfaction is reached without cumming.
And for her it’s the same experience. Delaying our orgasms only makes them more intense.
Now we will stop pussy fucking to make her even more sensitive to anal orgasms. We both love it if she orgasms purely from anal sex and hope anal only will make her orgasm better.