Quebass wrote:Anal set is all about foreplay and opening it up.
Errm wrong. All this we have to do a big preparation ceremony before we have sex. Diet, lube enemas it's all rubbish. Just make out and be sensual and it all happens so easily. Yes be gentle, be sensitive, be consensual.
For me it's simple.... I enjoy anal sex so I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't.
Oh, lucky you! I have IBS and there's a complicated ritual and frequent drug use involved.

My wife on the other hand... All she needs is the tiniest awareness of how well her last bowel movement went. Maybe a lot of people are like that. But certainly not everyone.