i think the reason it's working is mostly because our personalities are compatible. but make no mistake it definitely also takes WORK. not so much because of all the moving parts - although that can be a challenge! it's more a question of being aware and considerate of two peoples needs and emotions instead of just one. it was scary at first to be that vulnerable. it came more naturally for me because i am sexually submissive and i tend to be very attuned to the needs of my lovers and get off by serving my lovers. but for the guys, it took more practice and a lot of COMMUNICATION. luckily they have a very encouraging girlfriend
sexually, things are evolving too. they are still very heterosexual, but our regular threeway lovemaking has made them increasingly comfortable with physical intimacy between the two of them, like caressing each other, or rubbing their cocks together. we're all getting more turned on by these acts and i hope one day we can all fuck and suck each other off, but for now my ass is the one in the middle getting fucked and that is just fine with me!
Haunter wrote:fantasizing-realist wrote:Haunter wrote:1) Oh, it seems I'm not the only thinking that having there two of the opposite sex enjoying each other is so hot!
Time out. How exactly were you unaware that other men like lesbian porn? or that quite a few women are yaoi addicts?
I suppose I was unaware of it simply because I never came across that topic!
How on earth does someone make it deep enough into the internet to discover such an obscure place as this without coming across all the lesbian porn videos or yaoi fanfiction? That's like walking Through Ireland long enough to find a wild snake without finding a single Pub!
fantasizing-realist wrote:How on earth does someone make it deep enough into the internet to discover such an obscure place as this without coming across all the lesbian porn videos or yaoi fanfiction? That's like walking Through Ireland long enough to find a wild snake without finding a single Pub!
Lesbian porn is easy to find. I find it boring as watching paint dry (why watch two women have sex who don't want me? Also real lesbians, I know quite a few, look nothing like in porn). Yaoi fanfiction on the other hand, well I knew it existed, but that's because I like fanfiction in general. It wasn't until South Park did an episode about it that I really learned about this insanity.
Haunter wrote:Has anyone known anything about anal -or AO- throuples (couples of 3 people) with 1 male and 2 females? I imagine a relation in which all possible 3 pairs of these 3 people are attracted to each other sexually. And also the 3 of them enjoy sex together...
Me. I am in a long term relationship, married actually, with two other people; my husband and sister. It's been like, 19 years or so.
Obviously we enjoy sex with one another.