How to train myself to cum from anal

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SluttyJanet
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How to train myself to cum from anal

Post by SluttyJanet » Wed May 20, 2020 11:41 am

Hey! I'm new here. Me and my boyfriend have made the transition to anal only 9 days ago and we are loving it! The pleasure is so intense all the time.

Unfortunately, I am usually unable to cum from our sessions. Of the 13 times we've had anal sex since then I've only reached orgasm 3 times. Don't get me wrong it's still super pleasurable but I can't climax.

I was looking for some place to ask and found this forum. So I hope you can help me and my boyfriend.

Is there any way to train myself to cum from anal every time? I'm open with going non anal only for the training as long as I end up being anal only. Thanks!

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Re: How to train myself to cum from anal

Post by julietagc » Fri May 22, 2020 2:24 pm

Hi, well first of all patience.

you can "train" that is to say play with your ass, with toys and others but it is not necessary if you have regular sex with your boyfriend using your ass.

If you touch your clitoris during anal sex you will reach cum relatively quickly but I imagine you want an anal orgasm, without pussy / clit, this is very intense but you must have patience, your body must adapt to anal first.
What they advised me was to use the missionary but anal poses, or lying down with my butt slightly raised with a pillow or ride and play with your waist, it works even though I like other positions too but it can be useful to start. xD

it takes a month and a half (approximately) going anal only, to have orgasms, I think it is on the mental side, focusing all your pleasure and sensations on your butt and that takes some time, but it is something more personal, each girl will have her time I imagine, but what I am trying to say is that it is not so simple.

I will give you a tip that can be useful to you, forget this, I mean, at the beginning I was like you, with that orgasm in my mind but I had to really forget it and just enjoy, let go and that climax would come. Probably there will come a moment of sex, where you will feel that you can no longer, but continue and break that barrier, then when you think that you can no longer, and that climax will come.

hope this helps you

PD: it may take some time but it's very worth it, you will not regret. ;)
"Pussy ignored, ass gaped" ;)

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Re: How to train myself to cum from anal

Post by Samy » Mon May 25, 2020 7:02 am

I agree totally with julietagc.

Going anal only is about "rewiring" your body and the location of your pleasure center, it's a slow process.

Little by little, the sexual energy centered in your pussy (vagina and clitoris) has to be "translated" to your ass: this means you have to develop the pleasure in your ass (masturbation, sex toys like plugs, or just anal sex with your boyfriend if you're having it often enough) while letting go of the pleasure in your pussy (vaginal and/or clitoral stimulation). The transition can sometimes be frustrating because of the latter part, it's sometimes hard to quit that sort of habit, but it's worth it because of the extra pleasure, arousal, and synchronisation with your partner that you gain when you become anal only. Give your body and mind the time to shift, to abandon one logic to go to another.

Like julietagc says, you therefore shouldn't focus so much on orgasms, and more on pleasure: the more you appreciate anal sex, the more you practise and focus on it, the more natural it gets, the more pleasure you'll both get, and orgasms will eventually follow. If you also practice clitoral denial to some extent, the frustration can be turned into extra arousal and pleasure then powerful orgasms, and once you get there, you can't really go back. It's a worthwhile journey, for both of you.

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Re: How to train myself to cum from anal

Post by julietagc » Tue May 26, 2020 12:11 pm

Samy wrote:
Mon May 25, 2020 7:02 am
I agree totally with julietagc.

Going anal only is about "rewiring" your body and the location of your pleasure center, it's a slow process.

Little by little, the sexual energy centered in your pussy (vagina and clitoris) has to be "translated" to your ass: this means you have to develop the pleasure in your ass (masturbation, sex toys like plugs, or just anal sex with your boyfriend if you're having it often enough) while letting go of the pleasure in your pussy (vaginal and/or clitoral stimulation). The transition can sometimes be frustrating because of the latter part, it's sometimes hard to quit that sort of habit, but it's worth it because of the extra pleasure, arousal, and synchronisation with your partner that you gain when you become anal only. Give your body and mind the time to shift, to abandon one logic to go to another.

Like julietagc says, you therefore shouldn't focus so much on orgasms, and more on pleasure: the more you appreciate anal sex, the more you practise and focus on it, the more natural it gets, the more pleasure you'll both get, and orgasms will eventually follow. If you also practice clitoral denial to some extent, the frustration can be turned into extra arousal and pleasure then powerful orgasms, and once you get there, you can't really go back. It's a worthwhile journey, for both of you.

At first I didn't understand this, but now I do, I think clitoral denial is very necessary if she wants to put all her focus of pleasure on her ass, in the end it all depends on her, to try :)
"Pussy ignored, ass gaped" ;)

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