Can you convince me that anal sex is not objectively unhealthy, humiliating and degrading?

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SnowBananaMilk
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Can you convince me that anal sex is not objectively unhealthy, humiliating and degrading?

Post by SnowBananaMilk » Fri Jul 31, 2020 9:50 am

I'm curious about anal sex, but everytime anal is brought up people talk about how unhealthy and humiliating it is so I'm doubting things. They say for instance that vagina has evolved and is designed to be penetrated, but anus has not evolved and is not designed to be penetrated that's why it's the riskiest sex act when it comes to STD transmission and bacterial infections and that's why anus/anal lining is prone to tearing so easily, and that men shouldn't "stick their baby-maker in the digestive tract"; https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... dium=web2x

And when we say we can just use lube, people say, "you could probably stick a penis in an eye socket too if you used enough lube. Does that make eye-fucking a good idea? no"; https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... dium=web2x

For the organs being evolved to do xyz, I told such people that humans are evolved to stay in the cave and hunt, so humans are not evolved to use the internet, use medicine, stay in a building, etc either, and if anal sex is humiliating because the anus/anal lining is not evolved to be penetrated then using the internet, using medicine, staying in a building, etc are also humiliating to humans, but they said this to me; https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueGayMen/com ... dium=web2x
False equivalence. This is like injecting yourself with a shit ton of heroin, and when someone tells you that your body can't handle that, you yell "WELL HUMANS WEREN'T MADE TO USE MEDICENE, SO FUCK YOUR ENTIRE HOSPITAL!"

I mean sure, yes, you can inject yourself with a ton of illicit substances and suffer the consequences, but don't expect people to feel positively about it, or let you encourage others to do the same

The humiliation aspect has nothing to do with evolution; that has to do with society, and hatred towards certain groups of people.

Can you convince me that anal sex is not objectively unhealthy, humiliating, demeaning and degrading?

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Re: Can you convince me that anal sex is not objectively unhealthy, humiliating and degrading?

Post by French Lover » Fri Jul 31, 2020 3:10 pm

Well…
:arrow: Not unhealthy: lots of us are having anal on a regular basis with no health issue. If you know the number of bacteria in a mouth or a vagina, you wouldn't stick your penis in it. You may have disease with vaginal sex, is it unhealthy to you?
:arrow: Not humiliating: where is the problem if both partners are willing to do so. Where is the humiliation? It is not like there couldn't be kindness or love with anal. You have to stop watching porn and have real sex.
:arrow: Not demeaning: same.
:arrow: Not degrading: same.

Well, there is a problem here. People are thinking anal is not what it is. It is sex. You may use all those argument against oral or vaginal, but it is not used against those forms of sex. Why? Because some people want that everything they don't do to be abnormal.

If you're interested in anal and want to try, go ahead and try it. As long as you want to explore, you take your time, you find the right partner who will listen to your desire, and you use lube, there is likely to have no more problem than with vaginal or oral.

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