Clit/Penis orgasms after long periods of Anal Only

[clouds]

Hello there!

I was curious about your experiences with going back to having "regular" orgasms after being anal only for a long time. By anal orgasm I mean specifically orgasms where you don't use your clit/penis for stimulation and by "regular" I mean an orgasm where you don't involve your ass at all. Just for comparison's sake! I know a lot of people (my GF and I included) often combine the two and that's great. So I'm interested in how you compare the two sensations? Which is harder to reach for you? How do you feel after? Which is more intense? Do you miss stimulation on your ass/front when you only stimulate the front or vice versa? Etc. (might also be interesting to know if you're a woman or man)

Reason for asking:
So, for the past month I was basically anal only as an experiment. Meaning I would only masturbate anally (which I do anyway), but also I wasn't using my penis at the same time or when we had sex together. Once or twice my girlfriend put a few condoms on it to reduce sensation so she could use me as a dildo and she teased me a little from time to time but that's it. Meanwhile the pleasure I got from anal skyrocketed... After a while I would come quickly, very intense and multiple times (often only with precum, but sometimes also regular cum) and I also noticed that my general mood improved a lot, I had more energy. Of course, I was also very horny sometimes, for me, cuming from anal (with or without ejaculation) reduces libido for a shorter time. But I can definitely recommend trying it, I honestly never enjoyed my sex life more than during that period ( btw: the other reason for doing it was to help my brain further recover from porn-masturbation-orgasm addiction).
-->Long story short, last weekend I had my first "regular" orgasm again. My partner totally enjoyed that month, pegging me etc. but was also very much looking forward to having her ass filled with cum again and that's exactly what we did. No anal stimulation at all. It felt ok, but I didn't come as quickly as I thought I would after that long time and the orgasm itself felt great. Typical short and intense. Shortly afterwards though, I totally crashed. I felt empty and even depressed. Quick research showed that that's a common phenomenon called Post Coital Dysphoria, but I never had it that intense. Took me almost 12 hours to recover. Since then I also had anal orgasms again (also combined) and there that crash is totally absent which made me curious. Have some of you experienced something similar?

[AnalJay]

We’ve not tried strictly no cock/clit stimulation; but I do find that after orgasms brought on by anal sex, either from me penetrating my wife’s anus or from her pegging/fisting/riming me, I am mentally (libido wise) up and ready for action after a little while. But after cumming in her pussy, which is great, I do have a short term loss of libido that I don’t have when our asses have been included. I’ve presumed this to be psychological and the reason I find myself on this forum, I guess. Interesting though, the notion that an anal stimulation only orgasm could have a different psychological, physiological and/or neurological effect on libido.

[sana]

i havent tried yet.
3 months now.. sex every day.. anal

0 orgasms so far.
the only stimulation i get from my vagina and clit are when my bf or his wife hit me or pinch me.
And it really hurts.

[NoVagAnal]

i havent tried yet.
3 months now.. sex every day.. anal

0 orgasms so far.
the only stimulation i get from my vagina and clit are when my bf or his wife hit me or pinch me.
And it really hurts.

I'm curious, do you enjoy the denial? Or do you just enjoy doing things for them?

My wife and I also take part in denial and I think she really enjoys it. She always says she likes to save it so she can have a big orgasm when she is allowed, but last time she had a ruined one instead and I think she liked that as well. So I'm just curious what keeps you into it?

[sana]

i do like the denial.
There are a few elements to it.

Firstly, the heightened state of arousal itself is very pleasurable.

It bonds me more to one partner. My bf in this case. I dont really have sex with others unless he wants me too. And its not even a rule. He knows i used to hookup a lot before. I just dont feel like i want to have sex with others. I do crave intimacy with him however, to the point of jealousy with his wife and other girls he has sex with. Watching him kiss them is the most painful thing. Being able to feel this way with someone is a huge thing as a woman.

And I actually feel like i dont need it anymore. I know ppl mentioned anal orgasms, im yet to experience and confirm it exists. I still get plenty of pleasure from anal (physical) and other emotional and spiritual forms of pleasure too. Not ready to trade off my vagina yet lol. But im getting close to acknowledging i dont need it for sexual intimacy.

Try it with your wife. It feels terribly uncomfortable for about a month. It will start to feel different after that and the urges to play with her vagina will start to diminish.

[sana]

the other thing to keep in mind is that female vagina orgasms are not as fulfilling, nor essential for sex as penis orgasms are.
Thats why a penis is almost always fulfilled after it cums. And a vagina often is not. And i dont think it was designed for the same fulfilment.

I am starting to think that the need for that small orgasm from the vagina is responsible for the lack of femininity today. Females need the intimacy and connection. Not necessarily the orgasm.

I was guilty of this before too.
AO has kind of reset this for me. Made me a better woman.

[NoVagAnal]

I like the way you think. I think everyone has their own reasons, but I agree with you. A man is built for pleasure, a women is built to provide pleasure and by being able to do so she gains intimacy twords her partner.

I really like the aspect that AO makes the women more horny, submissive and attentive to her man. It makes her a better a women. And your reaction to being AO is the correct one. It doesn't always work out for everyone but you are definitely made for it.

My wife is only touched once a month. The rest of the month I don't touch her and she never touches herself. I'm trying to reduce the amount she is touched. She usually has a huge orgasm the day she is touched, but last time she ruined it (she didn't know she was allowed to cum) and I really liked that her one time a month was ruined, so I want to do that more.

Currently we have deal, she is not going to be touched at all until after the first week of August. So she has a lot of time before her pussy gets any kind of attention.

[sana]

I like the way you think. I think everyone has their own reasons, but I agree with you. A man is built for pleasure, a women is built to provide pleasure and by being able to do so she gains intimacy twords her partner.

I really like the aspect that AO makes the women more horny, submissive and attentive to her man. It makes her a better a women. And your reaction to being AO is the correct one. It doesn't always work out for everyone but you are definitely made for it.

My wife is only touched once a month. The rest of the month I don't touch her and she never touches herself. I'm trying to reduce the amount she is touched. She usually has a huge orgasm the day she is touched, but last time she ruined it (she didn't know she was allowed to cum) and I really liked that her one time a month was ruined, so I want to do that more.

Currently we have deal, she is not going to be touched at all until after the first week of August. So she has a lot of time before her pussy gets any kind of attention.

A lot of feminist women will not agree with this. Im in no ways conventional (i have a husband and a bf) I used tp be hypersexual with multiple partners, playing with my vagina a lot.

Basically i was trying to get off like men do. I cannot.. my organs and sexuality are built different. My organs are not made for the same release. Thats why i could have sex with 8 guys one after the other and not feel satisfied; go back and masturbate and still feel like i need to release. I don't believe i can fins this release i am looking for without a penis. All the men i had sex with were satisfied. Yet the girls and I had the same issue. Vaginas just weren't designed for the same purpose as penises. Its a very western thinking that tries to make everything equal, when its not. And I dont think it ever has been.

I think once girls embrace this and forget about trying to get off to an orgasm and release like a man, they will truly enjoy their sexuality

[NoVagAnal]

I'm glad you found anal to be so satisfying. I really like how you think about your vagina and a man's cock. I think there are a lot more women out there turned on by the same kind of thing but wre just to embarrassed to admit it. My wife was like that, she was turned on by a lot of stuff but was too ashamed to accept it. I helped her open up to herself.

[AbbiTur05]

This topic is very interesting for me and thank you all for your sharing. In my case I've not had vaginal penetration for over 6 months (yes I'm still a rookie in these forums!!). Anal sex has proved more amazing and satisfying than I could have ever imagined. The intimacy and conversely the fun meant that I won't be returning to vaginal until I want a baby. Shame I can't become pregnant from anal!! I have never stopped clitoral stimulation. I just couldn't do it. My friend who has not had vaginal or clitoral stimulation said that the orgasms she experiences from anal sex are so much stronger because of her decision. Even with clitoral orgasms my anal pleasure is mind blowing. If it was to become any more intense I don't think I could cope!!