I have also heard it takes a long time to prepare for anal, that it takes a lot of cleaning, lube, etc to have anal, which makes anal frustrating and not worth it, and that spontaneous anal (having anal whenever and wherever one wants) is not possible because it takes a lot of preparation to have anal. Is that true or false?
Can one have anal without cleaning? Won't there be poo if they don't clean?
How long does it take to prepare for anal? Should one contact their partner a few hours before anal to prepare for it? Does the preparation take hours? Should one not eat anything before anal? What about during anal (food sex)?
What about diarrhea? If one struggles with diarrhea, how can they prepare for anal sex? How long does it take to fix the diarrhea issue and have anal without making a mess during anal?