Bemago1140 wrote: ↑Thu Oct 13, 2022 7:54 pm
So anal makes a girl slutty/slut? Not cool to label and judge
Also would you call men “slutty” is is this a woman only label?
Let’s be progressive and not judgmental please
The OP
was a girl and she seemed to see it as a positive label - I am not condoning promiscuity, that is up to the individual to decide how they live their life, but labels can be used in varying ways. Feeling slutty - which was the original question - does not have to mean that you are a slut by definition, though you may be. My wife likes me to 'use' her; she has a rape fetish that sometimes comes out. I could even call her a dirty little slut if I felt like it. She may feel slutty after being 'used' but with her mind set, when she is in that particular mood, there is an extra twist, 'slut' suggests she wants it, the thought of being raped suggests one does not want it (she does want it BTW, she just sometimes likes to imagine someone is taking advantage of her, and like someone said, especially if the anal is coming from behind or you are face down, etc. you can imagine all sorts of things about your unseen partner). We are monogamous - yet she sometimes likes to be a 'slut' or be made to feel slutty by me and the twist being that she lets all the 'shame' of her feeling like a slut fall on me, because
I have had
my way with her, she has been the 'victim' of my desire - then, later, she gets all giddy and tells me how much fun she's had. But somewhere in her psyche she likes the shame of being slutty.