Let’s talk about anal and what made you decide to go anal only

[Lisbon_Couple]

It's not very sexy but I noticed that I felt sexual arousal while taking a shit

My wife also feel sexual arousal while pooping. That is how she had her first orgasms, just by pooping and using her poop like a dildo, in and out.
She still does it sometimes.

Her reason to go AO is that vaginal sex is hard to her because she suffers from Vaginismus, when she thinks that something is going to enter her vagina, her vagina closes, she can't put anything inside her. Her vagina is very dry, it has very little mucus, so vaginal infections are recurrent. It would be dangerous to try PIV sex with her.

[Juliet]

Unique physical sensation.

The idea, as a fetish, kink, uniqueness, personal desires for anal porn etc

[Backdoorlover]

We decided to go anal only like this.

I always had women in my life who were okay with anal sex. But who were also mainly pussy oriented, anal was an extra.

So in my masturbation fantasies, a reoccuring thing for me was dreaming about an anal exclusive relationship with a women who wasn’t even interested in pussy fucks anymore.

For more then a decade this was my fantasy. Realizing such a woman didn’t exist



So in april 2021 I started the relationship with my current girlfriend. She had good experiences with anal sex and told me early on she had trouble coming from vaginal, but anal plus clit stim was a guarantee to orgasm.

When we had or first anal fuck, it was amazingly good and she said straight up “why didn’t we do this sooner ?” Anal has been a daily thing eversince. So now having a woman who absolutely addored being assfucked, that anal exclusive idea reemerged in my mind, asking her if she wanted to try anal exclusive in october 2021 and she said yes without any hesitation.

BUT … meanwhile I asked her if she would consider ass to mouth sex. After explaining that she would use a douche, she was game. We bought the douche and she did ass to mouth. It was sooooo good that it made her wonder about ass to pussy. We then abandone our anal exclusive month to focus on ass to pussy and ass to mouth. And believe me, we had fun. My favorite combo was ass-pussy-ass-mouth all evening.

Then in december 2021 I found this website. Read through it and got intreagued about anal only (didn’t realize there was a desciption for it) again. I told her about this forum and she replied straight up “let’s try anal only”. That was december 22 2021 and we’re anal only eversince. Not missing pussy penetration at all. A few weeks ago I did a short ass to pussy fuck to check what it did to us, if we missed out.

It felt weird, not even pleasurable for both of us. When I shoved it in her ass again she felt my cock belongs there. The feeling of her asshole around my cock is silky smooth and all around gripping my cock. Her pussy felt like it is pressing from the sided and has a structure inside that doesn’t even feels that good. So now we know we are 100% adapted to anal only lifestyle.

[Colt1911]

Why did we go anal only? Easy… the pleasure and orgasms. Every now and then my wife suggests I fuck her pussy. This happened yesterday and maybe a year since we last had vaginal sex. We have a ritual that includes me grooming my wife’s pussy and ass. She plugs so I have to pull and move the plug while I groom her hole with a battery trimmer. This is great foreplay.

Anyway, after I finished trimming her pussy and ass, I flipped her over on her back and teased her ass with my cock. She requested a glass dildo and inserted it in her pussy as I began to fuck her ass. Within a minute or two she tossed the dildo saying it wasn’t doing much for her. We are not anal absolutists as I love sucking and playing with her clit during foreplay, but when it’s time to fuck, it really is anal only for both of us. Those of us who discovered anal sex know exactly what I’m talking about.

[hdean667]

First time I tried it was late 80s. A girlfriend wanted to try it. As a child of the 80s I thought of it as a gay thing, really, and was not particularly enthused to do it. Then we did it and it was amazing. No condom? Yes! More friction? Yes. It didn't hurt she had a gorgeous, round ass and, when we did it doggy style I could see that asshole wrapped so perfectly around my cock.

My next few relationships included anal but never got to AO. Fast forward to February of 2021. Following a divorce that left me shell shocked I met a wonderful woman who stole my heart. Having had only three partners previously she was very inexperienced but adventurous. Our first night together I introduced her to anal. She liked it, even without orgasms.

We lived about two hours away from each other at the time. Over Spring break, when her kids were out of school, she agreed to come stay with me. She also agreed to a week of anal only. I think it was her second night there - Saturday - she had her first anal orgasm. It was also the first time she ever had a multiple.

Next time I came to stay with her I noticed she was not wearing her birth control patch. When asked, she said she told me there was no point. She wanted to go AO. It was a definite shock as I had never envisioned going anal only and would have been happy with a 50/50 split. But, she explained, going AO eased her mind from the possibility of pregnancy and gave her powerful and multiple orgasms. Also, there was no chance I would bang into her cervix, so anal was less painful by a long shot.

I think we tried vaginal twice after that. Both times she ended up with a bruised cervix. That was late March. We have done zero vaginal since.

[Rimmer]

As a child of the 80s I thought of it as a gay thing,

Same here, was taught it was a gay thing in the 80s and never really thought about it as an option with a girl. Until I saw a film where it was not so much seen, but suggested by what was going on in the scene. Then the thought got me really horny and anal with a girl was on my mind and, as it was thought to be a gay thing, that double taboo made it more erotic. As I have said before, it was a girl that instigated my first anal, We were having sex and we changed position, she went cowgirl, felt great. Wasn't until she dismounted and I saw my cum drip out of her ass as she swung her leg over me and span round, that I realized I had been in her ass and that was why it had felt so good. She wiped my cum from her hole and gave me her panties to remind me of her while e were apart. That was it, I was an anal addict. Was some time before me and my future wife went AO. She actually asked me, she had discovered that she liked to be submissive in bed and asking me if I wanted her to go AO was a way for her to express this, so it worked for both of us. I have to admit, after a few years of AO (90-95% if you include ass to pussy, pussy to ass for lubrication and the odd full pussy fuck) we have started having vaginal sex lately as well, but that is another story

[Peachy V]

Well I'm not anal only, I'm anal mostly. But what made me decide to do it was several things.

I always found it appealing.
My partners have all wanted it.
Once I got more comfortable with it I actually found my ass accommodated cocks more easily.
Lastly, I just think the variety makes sex more fun.