What's qualifies as "losing your virginity" to you?

[Backdoorlover]

I always considered it kinda hypocrit when certain women were “virgins” at their weddingnight while they had plenty of anal sex before marriage.

I also met a woman who claimed “a blowjob is not sex, it’s more like an evolved way of kissing”. So I could imagine her “kissing” a lot of guys while never being sexual active.

So the term “virgin” gets stretched a lot (pun intended)

[sana]

I always considered it kinda hypocrit when certain women were “virgins” at their weddingnight while they had plenty of anal sex before marriage.

I also met a woman who claimed “a blowjob is not sex, it’s more like an evolved way of kissing”. So I could imagine her “kissing” a lot of guys while never being sexual active.

So the term “virgin” gets stretched a lot (pun intended)

Thata because wedding night sex is almost in all cultures about opening the vagina by her husbands penis for the first time to create a baby.

I know a lot of girls who did a lot of anal sex before marriage but were virgins on their wedding night. They all seem to have happy married lives compared to the many of us who had premarital sex with other men before. Chasing vaginal orgasms changes something with girls femininity. I can understand why religions wanted to protect it.

[TelJ2003]

Interesting question with the choices. I lost my vaginal virginity when I was 18 and anal when I was 20. That reads fairly respectable however I gave my first blow job when I was 14 and was addicted immediately!

[AbbiTur05]

I hope oral doesn't count. That would mean I lost my virginity when I was 15!! My Mum and Dad would not be happy with me lol.

[sana]

I hope oral doesn't count. That would mean I lost my virginity when I was 15!! My Mum and Dad would not be happy with me lol.

Nope. Oral, handjobsMasturbation (outside the vagina only) and kissing don't count.

In religion, only getting your vagina opened means you are not a virgin. So having anal doesnt count either.

So did you get to suck a penis.. or did someone suck you?

[AbbiTur05]

I do not have a penis although it might be fun to have one for a week!! I gave my boyfriend a blowjob upstairs on the backseat of a bus. He showed me porn movies so I knew what to expect. I was addicted from that moment!

[sana]

I do not have a penis although it might be fun to have one for a week!! I gave my boyfriend a blowjob upstairs on the backseat of a bus. He showed me porn movies so I knew what to expect. I was addicted from that moment!

Its addictive.. lol

[Dilyara]

Of course losing vaginal virginity

[sana]

It just makes better sense that the vagina has a seal right?

[Dilyara]

It just makes better sense that the vagina has a seal right?

Yes of course! And anal sex before losing virginity is just getting experience!