First date anal
Re: First date anal
Why not if that's what both like and want? Surely it's way past the time when anal is treated as something to be "saved" for those "special occasions". Not everyone has sex on a first date its true, but anal should be replacing vaginal for most people imo and whoever thought vaginal on a first date was a crazy idea?
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I have a strong preference for anal and before dating a guy, I let him know that is my orientation. This doesn't always work because some guys say they like anal but once we're in bed just give a few token thrusts in my bottom before going for my vag.
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Whether or not to have anal sex on a first date really depends on the people involved and their comfort levels. My partner and I had some similar thoughts, and we ended up visiting tosituhma.com together. It was a great way for us to explore our interests and establish clear communication about what we were both comfortable with. Meeting in a space that’s open and respectful of various desires can sometimes make these conversations easier. If you’re unsure, it’s always good to discuss things openly and see how both of you feel about it.
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I'm a guy and I actually lost my virginity (giving) with anal.
I had met this girl in internet and for a long time we had long distance relationship. When we met in person we knew each others already pretty well and went for sex. But I was so nervous that I couldn't keep the erection with the condom. The girl had more experience in sex and she asked me if I want to try anal so we don't need the condom. I was very happy and had a successful experience. After that for days we had only anal sex. Only later I got to have my first vaginal sex experience
I had met this girl in internet and for a long time we had long distance relationship. When we met in person we knew each others already pretty well and went for sex. But I was so nervous that I couldn't keep the erection with the condom. The girl had more experience in sex and she asked me if I want to try anal so we don't need the condom. I was very happy and had a successful experience. After that for days we had only anal sex. Only later I got to have my first vaginal sex experience

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Nearly all of my hookup dates are specifically for the purpose of first date anal. That's part of my lifestyle at this point. I love the thrill and sort of embarrassment and other feelings that hit me when I have a man I just met in real life a few hours ago up my ass. I find it more fun than when I had one night stands in my pussy years ago.
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sharedbuttslut wrote: ↑Thu Aug 29, 2024 3:13 pmNearly all of my hookup dates are specifically for the purpose of first date anal. That's part of my lifestyle at this point. I love the thrill and sort of embarrassment and other feelings that hit me when I have a man I just met in real life a few hours ago up my ass. I find it more fun than when I had one night stands in my pussy years ago.
The perfect cocktail of experiences. And welcome back! I remember you from years ago here.
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Personally, I'd ask you on a 2nd date if that were the case..