Re: Should anal hurt?
Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2015 10:02 am
I have no interest whatsoever in hurting my partner. I'd find it a big turn-off if she was in pain. I love it when she's submissive, but not to the extent that she's in pain.
Discussion about the lifestyle choice of abandoning vaginal penetration to exclusively have anal and oral sex instead.
https://www.analonlylifestyle.com/
Marquis wrote: ↑Thu Mar 13, 2014 5:41 pmOne of the first things we tell people new to anal is "anal should not hurt, use plenty of lube and go slow!"
Well this can definitely get more people through the anal door and, hopefully, on the anal train; I don't mind admitting that some of my favorite experiences with anal are those where my partner is experiencing some pain and roughness and her suffering while I have pleasure is a major turn on for me. Is it possible that the need to be gentle and the power that the penetrator has over the penetratee in anal contributes to the higher level of intimacy so many speak of on this forum?
Personally, I love it when a girl will let me bend her over and pop my dick in and out of her ass ring until she cries. If I am close with a girl and she understands my needs, we will make a game of seeing how little lube we can use and still force my (thankfully, medium sized) dick into her tightest orifice. I love the feeling of the butt sphincter being forced open to accommodate me. Makes me feel so powerful!