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Only to women:

I am very curious to understand, as well as I can, what's it like to receive anal. What's the feeling? Why are you turned on by it?

Also, on a wider scenario: why masculine traits attract you? Why cocks do attract you? Why does cum?

I'm just damned curios, I wanna penetrate into your psychology to understand as much as I can.

The more details, the better! Thank you all from my heart in advance I hope many of you will answer ♥

I showed this to my wife - she is preparing a response, which I will post 4 her when she's done. I am curious about her responses as well...

I showed this post to my wife who offered her perspective. The following are the words of "Mrs. Canassman":

The attraction to cock for me is that I have an achey yearning in my pussy and in my ass that I feel needs to be filled by a shaft. Sucking on cock is also just enjoyable. Cocks aren't super beautiful in the sense that boobs are beautiful but they are fascinating.I love to run my tongue over the ridge and suck on the bulbous head. Regarding cum... it is just satisfying to know that I can "suck" the cum out of my man.

Back to penetration... the sensation of being penetrated at a sphincter is very different. From being entered in a hole open to being entered. To willingly relax the anus for penetration take a lot of trust and sense of surrender. And much like the sensation of having a satisfying shit... the sensation of something hard going in is also amazing. I love the feeling of being impaled and yet gripped tightly around my man's cock. I can also feel every twitch when he cums.

The feeling of having my rosebud stretched open is different feeling than having a cock balls deep in my ass. As well... sensations range with slow shallow thrusts vs deep vigorous thrusts. I love it all. I'm often drooling out of my pussy regardless of what my man is doing to my ass.

Orgasms while being fucked in the ass and being allowed clitoral stimulation has been by far the best orgasms I've ever had. The sensations tend to build and unlike vag sex, I can feel my ass squeezing my man's cock. The harder and faster he pumps when I'm cumming, the warmer and more intense my squeezing seems. I also love having my nipples pinched just as I am cumming it really adds to the full body tingly orgasm.

It has been challenging during "no diddle December".

Thank you very much Mrs Canassman for your precious contribution

Very precious indeed.

This is a female blog from a woman on an anal only relationship, I think it has some very good insights on the female perspective.
The link is for the first entry (too bad she stopped posting ) — The Intimacy of Anal Sex

I went to The Intimacy of Anal Sex that you posted

great site and from a woman's perspective.

I copied several pages and sent them to my wife, she enjoyed reading it also. Thanx for the tip.

From a woman perspective then, once you began the idea of anal play how did it make you feel?

I'm interested to get my head around how my other half does feel, as anything butt related has always been a 'no' but now for the last few months its been anal play everytime.

Gently licking her butthole to start then while i licked her out and now that is almost everytime we have sex and to the point where i can have her doggy style and eat her ass out.

I've just began to massage her anus while she rides me and she loves it so now she's conveying anal play with pleasure I wonder how to indroduce the next stage which would be a lubed finger or something like that - I'm fairly sure at some stage down the road penetration is on the cards but I'm very keen not to push the issue but from a womans perspective I wondered if you could relate?

My wife is my world and I love her to bits and our sexlife is better than ever and this new part of our journey together is not only exciting but I would dearly love to get an idea of how she thinks as a 'taboo' subject to love!

What does it feel like? Hmm. I mean, you can find out part of how it feels yourself! You just need some lube, hehehe.

There are of course some anatomic differences between men & women, though, so it's not going to feel the same.

What might be useful is to talk a little about that anatomy. Male and female embryos start out with the same genital bundle of nerves, tissues etc, which arrange themselves as you grow. So the clit is basically made of the same nerves & tissue as the head of your dick. So then, you may ask, where is the rest of it? And the answer is - inside. The nerves & tissue that, in men, form the shaft of the penis, in women, form a band that wraps around the vagina.

I think that anal orgasms (& probably vaginal ones too, for women who have them?) come from stimulating that band of internal clit tissue. (Edit: I know for me, I feel the pleasure & arousal from anal most strongly in the area between my ass and pussy, for whatever that's worth.)

So what I'm getting at is that maybe it feels a bit like stroking just the shaft of your dick?

Canassman wrote:I showed this post to my wife who offered her perspective. The following are the words of "Mrs. Canassman":

The attraction to cock for me is that I have an achey yearning in my pussy and in my ass that I feel needs to be filled by a shaft. Sucking on cock is also just enjoyable. Cocks aren't super beautiful in the sense that boobs are beautiful but they are fascinating.I love to run my tongue over the ridge and suck on the bulbous head. Regarding cum... it is just satisfying to know that I can "suck" the cum out of my man.

Back to penetration... the sensation of being penetrated at a sphincter is very different. From being entered in a hole open to being entered. To willingly relax the anus for penetration take a lot of trust and sense of surrender. And much like the sensation of having a satisfying shit... the sensation of something hard going in is also amazing. I love the feeling of being impaled and yet gripped tightly around my man's cock. I can also feel every twitch when he cums.

The feeling of having my rosebud stretched open is different feeling than having a cock balls deep in my ass. As well... sensations range with slow shallow thrusts vs deep vigorous thrusts. I love it all. I'm often drooling out of my pussy regardless of what my man is doing to my ass.

Orgasms while being fucked in the ass and being allowed clitoral stimulation has been by far the best orgasms I've ever had. The sensations tend to build and unlike vag sex, I can feel my ass squeezing my man's cock. The harder and faster he pumps when I'm cumming, the warmer and more intense my squeezing seems. I also love having my nipples pinched just as I am cumming it really adds to the full body tingly orgasm.

It has been challenging during "no diddle December".

Okay, either you temporarily turned catfish on us, or you're the damned luckiest guy in the room.

I am indeed the luckiest guy!