Talking about AO
Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 2:57 am
So, I was talking to the lady I sit with at work, she's 53, as she was asking if I was still with my bf and I said no. She was very nice said he was a fool (I know right?!) and stuff, but then she asked why we split.
Well, it's because he couldn't ultimately cope with an AO relationship, but I can't just say that to her right? She's my "work mum", but I can't just lie about it. So, I thought bugger it, and said;
"well, between you and me, I only like to have anal sex, and even though he knew that from the start, it turns out he couldn't handle not doing it the other way"
She didn't even flicker! She just looked at me and said
"well, he's an idiot for leaving you then. You offered him your truest self and he wasn't man enough for you."
I couldn't believe it, I thought shed be shocked at the very least, but it wasn't a thing for her at all! We chatted about it ay length throughout the day (we sit together upstairs so no-one is there to eavesdrop lol. She totally understands how I feel about it all and told me that she doesn't have sex all that often now, her husband has performance issues due to a medical condition, but she has always enjoyed anal sex herself, though only once or twice a month at her height.
It was a really refreshing conversation, I felt really good opening up to her like that, very liberating! She asked if I liked older guys, told me her son (33) is single. I said it was a funny that after we'd had that conversation she'd try and hook me up with her son, but also that yeah I was open minded and gave her my mobile number to pass on, though made her promise not to mention my preferences!
Let's see where this goes!
Well, it's because he couldn't ultimately cope with an AO relationship, but I can't just say that to her right? She's my "work mum", but I can't just lie about it. So, I thought bugger it, and said;
"well, between you and me, I only like to have anal sex, and even though he knew that from the start, it turns out he couldn't handle not doing it the other way"
She didn't even flicker! She just looked at me and said
"well, he's an idiot for leaving you then. You offered him your truest self and he wasn't man enough for you."
I couldn't believe it, I thought shed be shocked at the very least, but it wasn't a thing for her at all! We chatted about it ay length throughout the day (we sit together upstairs so no-one is there to eavesdrop lol. She totally understands how I feel about it all and told me that she doesn't have sex all that often now, her husband has performance issues due to a medical condition, but she has always enjoyed anal sex herself, though only once or twice a month at her height.
It was a really refreshing conversation, I felt really good opening up to her like that, very liberating! She asked if I liked older guys, told me her son (33) is single. I said it was a funny that after we'd had that conversation she'd try and hook me up with her son, but also that yeah I was open minded and gave her my mobile number to pass on, though made her promise not to mention my preferences!
Let's see where this goes!