Wife 17 years

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Johnnyenglish
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Wife 17 years

Post by Johnnyenglish » Thu Mar 16, 2017 12:26 pm

I'm merrid for 17 years a love my wife and her butt ( she is hot wife ). She let me play with her butt ( fingers . Rimming , sometimes she open her butt with her hands ) . We have doc Jonson butt plug set she don't won't to use it. We tried Anal sex many time but she doesn't like it. I know that if she will try it for long period she will love it .
What can I do to convince her to try to get use to anal sex ?

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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by Sgt_Valk » Thu Mar 16, 2017 1:11 pm

I had difficulty reading it. But be patient, go slow, use lube, there is no such thing as taking too much time when you are talking about prep. Make sure its a romantic setting next time you try. Talk to her about it to see if there would be a way to increase her pleasure while doing it. And if all that fails, it may not be meant to be. Some people love it, some people hate it.
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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by F655A » Fri Mar 17, 2017 10:06 am

What's not to like about anal? But then, that's just my opinion.

Question: Do you like receiving anal? Or, is it just your wife that you want to be the recipient?

Johnnyenglish
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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by Johnnyenglish » Sat Mar 18, 2017 9:31 am

I just want my wife to take my big cock

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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by F655A » Sat Mar 18, 2017 9:54 am

Oh.

Sorry, I didn't understand your question.

I made too many assumptions:
that your wife has her own psychological reasons for not liking it
that you don't know what those reasons are, and perhaps she doesn't fully know herself
that you wish her to be more psychologically flexible
that leading by example was an option
that in so doing, you both would discover a bridge of mutual understanding and flexibility in this area

I have zero success stories to share about unilaterally causing someone to do something they don't want to, particularly my spouse. I only know that it has never worked for me.

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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by Johnnyenglish » Mon Mar 20, 2017 11:17 am

Sorry for my English . I'm not from an English speaking country .
My wife just don't like anal penetration .
Sometimes she like finger in her A hole.
But she dont like anal sex.
I guess after 17 years she will not be an anal Quine.
We have great sex after all this years .and I can play with her butt from time to time.
I guess I have to thank for what I have.
After all .life is more than anal sex

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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by sgf » Tue Mar 21, 2017 6:51 pm

Johnnyenglish wrote:Sorry for my English . I'm not from an English speaking country .
My wife just don't like anal penetration .
Sometimes she like finger in her A hole.
But she dont like anal sex.
I guess after 17 years she will not be an anal Quine.
We have great sex after all this years .and I can play with her butt from time to time.
I guess I have to thank for what I have.
After all .life is more than anal sex

Created an account just to reply to this...

Don't give up. Married, ummm, damn, 20-ish years before my wife decided to stop thinking she hated anal, and actually give it a chance. We're not anal-only yet, but she learned to be multiply orgasmic with anal (never could accomplish that vaginally), and we're up to at least a couple orgasms each session anally. These days we usually finish off with her taking an anal pounding that would make most porn stars cringe, and begging for more. So - from someone else who waited a bit - sometimes, they come around...

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Re: Wife 17 years

Post by Kelly_ukf » Mon Mar 27, 2017 1:35 am

Your nic is JohnnyEnglish......lol ok poor choice....talk to your wife (maybe in your own language) an see what she says. Buying a set of plugs is not the key to sucess

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