Things you hate hearing

[AnalObsession]

I'm sure I don't necessarily need to tell anyone about the general perception of Anal sex In society, but what are the things you often hear relating to anal sex in any way shape or form that just upsets you. Something that really makes you angry or sad? What is it for you?

I'll post mine in a while. I need to do something else first.

[Buttwoman]

I have a feeling that most of the responses (from women at least) will be quite similar. In no particular order-

Is there something wrong with your lady parts?- No. I did have a very thorough Doctor's exam about this some years ago. He said I'm perfectly normal, and not to fix what ain't broke. I see my gyno regularly.

If you don't do vaginal, how do you cum?- Easily, often, bigger and better. With a guy, or with a girl, or solo...I'm orgasmic.

Is it because you're post menopause?- I've been doing this since I was fifteen.

That must really hurt.- It did the first time, cause I knew nothing about it, I didn't even use lube. It got easier very quickly. Now, I usually start sitting on top, and I can slide right down a guys shaft. Practice, and mindset.

And the #1 misconception I've heard since I was a teenager. It's based on ignorance, and fear. If you keep doing that you will shit your pants. If I had a dime for every time I've heard that I'd have a LOT of dimes. From my mother, to many lovers, girlfriends I talk to over coffee, even one Doctor. I've been told that I'll have lifelong incontinence, and wear a diaper, my ass will look like a sewer opening, and I'll stink of poo. I haven't kept count, but I've had anal at least 500 times, I play with dildos the size of my fore arm, and I have at times worn a BIG butt plug for hours at a time.
I haven't crapped my pants yet!!

[AnnoMundi]

What makes me the most sad is an immediate no. I can understand that anal is not for everyone, that for some its painful or not enjoyable. That maybe you tried it and it was done wrong so it hurt like hell. But a closed mind from the start, that just makes me sad. A closed mind is such a sad thing to encounter.

[Haunter]

The only person to which I talked in person about this preference of mine readily answered almost no woman will like anal (look: he didn't say "AO", just "anal"!) and some more things from his data that heavily put me off. He closed with the words "you'll have to adapt". I couldn't believe the world was like he depicted it, but had not enough meaningful real data on my own. Some months later I found this group and understood that things were different. Thanks to the skies for this...

[analsexonly]

• "Anal only? That's too limiting, why would you ever want to limit yourself like that?"
• "If you only want to fuck ass, why don't you just have sex with a man?"
• "I don't understand why anyone would want to fuck an asshole when it's just an inch from the best place on earth."
• "Anal sex is only done for the man's enjoyment."
• "I really prefer anal and don't get much out of vaginal, but I want it to be special, so we only do it once a month."

[AnalObsession]

• "If you only want to fuck ass, why don't you just have sex with a man?"
• "I don't understand why anyone would want to fuck an asshole when it's just an inch from the best place on earth."
• "Anal sex is only done for the man's enjoyment."

I want to hone in on these 3 right quick.

To the first one.

"If you want to get your dick sucked, why don't you just have sex with a man?"
"If you want to kiss somebody, why don't you just kiss a man?"
"If you want her to smack her butt, why don't you just smack a man?"

It's ridiculously stupid and homophobic.

To the second one.

"What's so great about the best place on earth, when the heavens are above earth?"

To the third one

This is the one people use to guilt trip me the most often, and I'll elaborate on why I'm so upset by it another time, but I don't think it's fair to just make assumptions and sweeping generalizations about what all women do and don't enjoy and why. Some say that any woman that likes it is a masochist and the men sadist which is sort of my problem.

[Quebass]

Anal set is all about foreplay and opening it up.

Errm wrong. All this we have to do a big preparation ceremony before we have sex. Diet, lube enemas it's all rubbish. Just make out and be sensual and it all happens so easily. Yes be gentle, be sensitive, be consensual.

For me it's simple.... I enjoy anal sex so I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't.

[Analien]

Anal canal is designed for evacuation only. Anal sex or mastrubation is therefore disgusting.
To the former claim: Well, primarily it is and hardly anybody will question that.

Yet, this part of body, when properly stimulated, provides a great deal of pleasure to people. So why should one deprive himself of it?

[AnnoMundi]

Anal canal is designed for evacuation only. Anal sex or mastrubation is therefore disgusting.
To the former claim: Well, primarily it is and hardly anybody will question that.

Yet, this part of body, when properly stimulated, provides a great deal of pleasure to people. So why should one deprive himself of it?

If you think about it lots of things were designed for one thing, only ended up being used primarily for others. You think Alexander Graham Bell envisioned his telephone being used so people could share every intimate thing of their lives with everyone all over the world? Do you think that when the first computers were linked together in the first incarnation of the internet that most of the internet traffic would end up being porn being downloaded/streamed?

If there's one universal constant with human beings is that we end up using everything for sex. Why would the asshole be any different?

[Sgt_Valk]

@annomundi

This is a realization that many people in the world don't recognize! But i love your examples lol!!!!!!!!!!