My new theory on men and anal sex.

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My new theory on men and anal sex.

Post by Buttwoman » Mon Apr 03, 2017 5:32 am

Women spend 98% of their fertile lives trying NOT to get pregnant. For a tiny percentage, they are trying to build a family, then the rest of the time sex is recreational. An AO lifestyle actually has benefits in this regard. Women KNOW they are not going to get pregnant, and that suits them fine. If they decide on procreation, they can switch over to vaginal, and be ready.

Men ,of any age, are genetically programmed to procreate. They want to spread their seed, and make babies. Look at Mick Jagger. This is so ingrained in their behaviour scientists have reduced life's basic needs to only- food, sex, shelter.
Most men love anal sex, and their reasons vary. When a woman brings up an AO lifestyle, little bells go off in a man's head- Sounds great, but how does that build my dynasty? A man may be willing to have a LOT of anal sex, but it seems he wants back in that vagina because his very core genetic makeup knows that his semen is wasted in a rectum.

There you go. My theory without any sound scientific backing. The things I think of in the middle of the night, specially when I'm not getting laid.

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Post by Regent » Mon Apr 03, 2017 10:30 am

I just like fuck my wife up to her ass.
That's all)))

But we have chidren.

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Post by analsexonly » Mon Apr 03, 2017 10:59 am

Men here are going to be biased in favor of anal and anal only, by the nature of the site's topic and its filtering effects on membership.

Anal only men, I think, recognize the same as you mentioned, that almost all sex in life is recreational rather than procreational, and therefore anal makes more sense. A lot of men don't want unexpected/unplanned children either, and so anal only can be a very viable approach for that. That doesn't mean no one anal only wants kids—if they want to get pregnant, they can just have vaginal sex for that purpose until it happens, then return to anal.

I can't say that I have or have ever really had the urge to fill a woman vaginally with semen—it feels more right to me anally. But I can't speak for other men, that's just me.

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Post by KinkyGermanGuy » Mon Apr 03, 2017 12:51 pm

Anal sex as pregnancy avoidance is a risky thing. One little sperm that finds its way into the pussy and to the egg is enough. There is always a little spill or an accidental slip from the main into the reproductive sex organ during or after orgasm and you have best case days of uncertainty and fear, worst case a nine month delivery.

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Post by Haunter » Mon Apr 03, 2017 1:34 pm

Well still I am a virgin... Anyway my feelings don't blame me *at all* for my preference of B side. I don't feel I am wasting anything. I should also mention I am not planning to have children neither in the distant future, at the moment. I've always seen the inner need to pass on your genes as something belonging to the animal world. I'm much more concerned in passing ahead my ideas if they worth something good for mankind. I also think things such a "biological parent" has very little importance. Who loves you for real, teaches you things and make you grow up is the key, in my view.
Think, it's free ;-)

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Post by AnnoMundi » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:14 am

Generally women seem to want to have kids a lot more then men. If anything becoming a father when unplanned seems to scare the living daylights out of most men. Men just want to have a LOT of sex. To which becoming a father is often detrimental. How many stories have we all heard where the sex became less or even non-existent after becoming parents? How many stories have we all heard where the sex increased after becoming parents? I dare say the latter is pretty much non-existent compared to the former.

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Post by gromm » Tue Jul 17, 2018 12:31 am

Maybe I'm weird and all, but...


Babies? Yeah, sure, if you're a fucking king or something and you need to keep your bloodline going for political reasons. Beyond that, babies are fuckload of new responsibility and 4+ years of interrupted sleep. For each one.

If you're wondering why some guys say no to anal, it's more about how they think vaginal feels better somehow. I couldn't disagree more personally, but apparently we're all weird here. I've heard some pornographers have a tough time trying to make everyone happy in this regard. Lots of guys are all about the ass, and lots of guys are all about the pussy. So... your mileage may vary. Just like everything. Keep looking.

Personally, as much as I desire an anal-only kind of relationship, and have had such relationships in the past, I'm still glad I have my wife, who's of the mind that getting both vaginal and anal at the same time is the best thing in the world. She says she would never give up vaginal sex, even though she really, truly, deeply, enthusiastically loves it in the ass too. But hey, considering how awesome she is in literally every other aspect of our relationship, I think that's a small price to pay.

So yeah. Sometimes you have to compromise. Besides, she's totally down for group sex and those anal-only girlfriends? They didn't start happening until after we got married. ;) I have no right to complain.

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Post by uncertain » Tue Jul 17, 2018 5:41 am

It's interesting to see what others have to say on the subject. I would love to have a definitive answer. I'm not sure that pregnancy or avoiding it has anything to do with anal sex. The problem of birth control was solved decades ago, and other than the poor, uneducated or the young, most women are in control of their own bodies and fertility.

My husband and I aren't interested in children right now, though this may change in the future. I honestly don't think his increased desire for anal sex to the exclusion of all else has anything to do with the above. It's more like a things that's bring growing a long time and only recently gotten to the point where he can't ignore it.

My husband basically made this an issue, I didn't bring it up so I'm sure no little alarm bells has gone off in his head. Interest in my vagina has slumped to almost non existent levels and I'm still trying to come to terms with that.

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Post by Regent » Tue Jul 17, 2018 10:32 am

I thouhgt about my desire of anal sex with wife...
I'm not insist that my desire is't a pervertion in some kind...
But anyway.
There are the reasons:
- I like woman butt more, than vagina or tits
- the asshole more tight than vagina, regardless of woman had children or not
- I like to cum inside my wife, but I can't do this in her vagina (because of birth control) or ih her month (she dislike this). But we both like than I cum inside her ass
- the senses thah my dick inside wife's ass very differrent and pleasant. Yes, more pleasant than dick in her vagina
- the view of wife's ass during anal sex - is a increadible exiter!
- I like to hear than wife has climax after anal sex

p.s. my English is not good enought. But I always try to learn it more and more))

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Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Wed Jul 18, 2018 6:37 am


You English is just fine. I coudn't have said it better myself.

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