Something I've noticed that admittedly kinda upsets me.

[AnalObsession]

Do you ever notice that when it comes to sex jokes or posters, the overwhelming majority of the ones relating to anal sex are negative in some way?

I just looked up random anal sex posters for my profiles and I had a very hard time finding one I want to use.

https://www.google.com/search?q=anal+se ... nc6ozIX4dM:

See this is why I don't like talking about sex with most people, and when I do, I have this sad tendency to obsess over the exact same points and stuff, over and over and I don't shut up lol.

[Haunter]

Yes this tendency is true even in my opinion: I'm also surprised it is almost always seen as a punishment and so on... But the other side of the coin shines: it's up to us to change this thing, if we want to. And will is a powerful weapon. If a little sparkle starts, in some years the world might begin noticing it was wrong to laugh at anal or anal only. It's not fair that such a possible preference is not regarded with the status it deserves!

[AnnoMundi]

I'm not that worried. Despite all the negative ideas and sayings anal porn sells like never before. It used to be rare as dirt. There's so much coming out of Eastern Europe alone I'm amazed if one of those actresses still gets boned in her pussy. So there's obviously a huge market for it. With lots of people watching it there's obviously lots of people who want to do it. Too bad they get the idea that you can ram it in just as easily as with a pussy.

And that's where the negative stereotype comes from and gets perpetuated. Despite having access to more information then EVER before in history people still can't be arsed to read up and properly prepare.

[Sgt_Valk]

I wanna start seeing anal porn that goes through the entire warmup, from enemas to rimming, to fingering to keeping her in the mood to actual penetration. Im almost not even interested in the sex any more in porn knowing how much work and dedication that gets overlooked in porn. Sure she wants it in her ass, but there seems to be a gap between saying that and actual penetration. I understand that spontaneous anal is possible, but there has to be SOME kind of warm up that im missing out on. Thats just as hot to me as the actual sex. I watch amateur splos now because at least they finger their ass a little before they shove a dildo in....

[Analien]

I'm not that worried. Despite all the negative ideas and sayings anal porn sells like never before. It used to be rare as dirt. There's so much coming out of Eastern Europe alone I'm amazed if one of those actresses still gets boned in her pussy. So there's obviously a huge market for it. With lots of people watching it there's obviously lots of people who want to do it. Too bad they get the idea that you can ram it in just as easily as with a pussy.

And that's where the negative stereotype comes from and gets perpetuated. Despite having access to more information then EVER before in history people still can't be arsed to read up and properly prepare.

It could be said that market is inundated by anal from Russia. I believe that most girls (not only) from there perform anal porn primarily for money.
Watching some rough anal scenes, I can imagine that they rather suffer during the act than enjoy it, especially if their anus still isn't prepared enough for big shafts that are common here.
What I also noticed is very poor lubrication in Eastern anal porn. The actors usually have their cocks dry the whole time, or at least it seems so.

[AOLknightfromFrance]

I couldn't agree more, and you can't really blame people as the Medias never stop lecturing us about porn being just some kind of virtual sex, nobody would ever in their right mind emulate in the bedroom... I used to go with the bandwaggon, saying nonsense like "you can't get any pleasure with your partner assfucking you at full throttle"... Guess what, I was talking bull... in my opinion it's the highway to anal orgasm which is mind blowing to say the least...

Then I also realized very few people in this world are capable of changing their way of thinking, and very often trying to convince people to be a little bit more open minded on any kind of subject, is a lost cause... Some would rather chop off their right hand than change their mind, they see it as a show of weakness, don't ask me why...

[AnnoMundi]

I think, with everything in life, that many of the truths we hold dear as socalled common wisdoms, are upon closer inspections falsehoods. The trick is in learning to look past them. And in finding the right answers, not more falsehoods.